sad2day Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 hi i don't know if anyone remembers but i posted about my breakup a few weeks ago. a little recap: i broke up with him because i got VERY scared. two months later i wanted him back. he thought he could do it then said he couldn't because the pain was the worst he ever experienced. he also said he was seeing someone. i know the new relationship was not serious and i don't think he is seeing anyone now. i was devastated. i cried and have even sought therapy. New info: well i reconnected with an old friend who is also going thru a separation. we have been hanging out and it has been just friends until sunday. we were the last two people to see this coming but it did and it was very nice. guess what.... monday morning the ex sent me an email stating he did not know why he was sending this since he said he wouldn't but he was thinking about me and wanted to see how i was. i was stunned of course. i told him that. we responded a little. he brought up past memories and went thru play by play a trip that we had. the anniversary of the trip is in a few weeks. i have been torn up since. i finally sent him an email that said i it is too hard for me to go down memory lane when we are not creating any new memories and that i was wondering if he was questioning his decision. he responded that he felt like an ass but that he wanted to to talk about this but he is busy at work and will have to do it later. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO THINK. i am going insane. i was finally doing better and having fun again. i am still in love with him but i don't want to go thru this again. if there is a future i will take it but i can't deal with the rejection again. HELP!!!! what's he thinking? why is he doing this? how do men know when we are starting to let go and move on? ugh.....
bustertypsy Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 Sad,you finished things,probably devastated him.If both of you love each other and have learnt things from the two months apart,then I give you both hope in this relationship. Relationships need to be taken super seriously.They are not games! I suggest you tell him how you feel,seen as you ended things. If he responds positively,then meet up and have a heart to heart. Be honest with each other,and if the love is there then go and do the right thing. Life is too short for silly games........good luck!!
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