TheGuy23 Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 So I have known this girl for a few months and we were just friends. We have a great time together. Just recently we moved from just being friends to dating. The other night she brought up the lets be exclusive talk and be both agreed to be exclusive, keep in mind that we have been on only a few dates. Things between us are just that good it seemed, and still does, like the right thing to do. Unfortunately the next night we are talking on the phone and she said so next year we will do this together and I said ya if we are still together we definitely should. So how bad is it that I said if we are together? I didn't mean it in any bad way because I hope we are together in a years time. It just came out. Is that a big turn off? I feel like just the biggest idiot for saying it. Can I just talk to her about what I said, or what?
Lovegod Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 Ah, don't worry about it. Just try phrasing it differently in the future. My personal favorite is "we'll see how things go".
Ruthieo01 Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 Don't worry, she might read a little into because she is a girl, and we're CRAZY like that, but if you bring it up again, it might make things a little weird. She has probably forgotten about it by now
EYECANDY000 Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 yea defefinately just talk to her and tell her that it was the wrong choice of words. But if you leave that statement unattended to, she will for sure think that you have no hope for the relationship. Saying something like "if we are still together" is a comment that would hurt your partners feelings to some kind of degree. Just let her know that you didnt mean it like that and it came out wrong. I have actaully said that same statement before and apologized and said what I really meant, and that was the end of that:bunny:
jessica2007 Posted November 29, 2007 Posted November 29, 2007 We do look into little phrases like that.And even if you woudl have said "we'll see how thins go"we'd look into that as well.Dont worry about it.
Dynamo Posted November 29, 2007 Posted November 29, 2007 I wouldn't bring it up unless she mentions it. Chances are she didn't catch it or has already forgotten about it. But if she does bring it up, simply explain to her what you meant. No harm done.
Jilly Bean Posted November 29, 2007 Posted November 29, 2007 On a scale of 1-10, it's about a 3. I will say that the depth of your remorse speaks volumes, and I think you will probably not make an error of the tongue like this again...
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