adam S Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 Sup, X girl is driving me up the wall because she insists on making things which are not my business, my business. i tell time after time to leave me the hell alone and enjoy her new life yet she never does. its getting to the point where she is literally harassing me. and the best part of the whole matter is that no one else can see through her bull****. what do i do...do i lay low and take it like a bitch or do i take matters into my own hands...if she really wants me to know about her new bf that much maybe i should go down and meet him with 4 other friends...need advice asap
FindingMyselfAgain Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 Not a wise choice. One: Bad news to have an assault / battery / even possibly malicious wounding or murder rap on the record. Two: The goal is to make yourself a better person and attract a better woman. Three: She ain't worth it. Four: The new BF ain't done s*t to you. Five: Simpler solution: Take a restraining order out on her. No contact, enforced by the police. Her first contact to you, she does 30 days in lockup.
bigheartkindsoul Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 Agree with the aboves point 5 Nothing else is worth it and he hasn't done anything to you (new bf). She is just trying to see if you still care enough/want her.
bish Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 if she really wants me to know about her new bf that much maybe i should go down and meet him with 4 other friends...need advice asap that is EXACTLY what you should do...tell her new bf that she constantly contacts you and tell him to tell her to leave you the hell alone. An ex of mine, whom I dated for 5 years, wrote me a letter when my grandfather died...she wrote this letter to me as a married woman telling me she wished things would have been different. I caught her with someone else when we were dating and when I left I told her I never wanted to see her or speak to her ever again. So she used my grandfather's death as an excuse to pour her heart out to me. So what did I do? I mailed the letter back to her husband with a note in it saying, "Tell your wife to leave me the hell alone!" and signed my name. She never contacted me again.
Summer_guy_uk Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 I dont understand you overly aggressive attitude, I'm no ponce myself but the dude in question hasn't done anyhting to you...it's her. If you feel thats what you HAVE to do then go do it. You'll get plenty of sex in prison no strings attached I promise.
Trialbyfire Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 One question. Why are you taking her calls?
Author adam S Posted November 28, 2007 Author Posted November 28, 2007 i know i cant just barge into someones house and kick their ass..or could i...but anyway at this point it would really help haha...i know he hasnt intentionally done anything but i would never hit a chick so hes the next in line..this just seems so childish to me...why on gods green earth would u call someone who u loved and spent every minute of ur time with and brag about ur new bf...does she have no respect for me at all? This whole thing is stalling my healing...at this point its not lovey dovey sadness its frustration and i need to get my head on straight because i know shes enjoying this:mad:
reboot Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 So... why... do... you... allow... her... to... contact... you?
Author adam S Posted November 28, 2007 Author Posted November 28, 2007 One question. Why are you taking her calls? i get a lot of random calls during the day at my house(work,telemarketers,ppl) and i dont always know who is calling. When i get on the phone i get into this mood where i want to see wut the f*** is wrong with this broad...and trust me she is quite persistant if i dont pick up she doesnt stop calling...PSYCHOOOOO
Author adam S Posted November 28, 2007 Author Posted November 28, 2007 When She Calls The Phone Ringer Actually Rings...psychoooo...psychoo
Trialbyfire Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 i get a lot of random calls during the day at my house(work,telemarketers,ppl) and i dont always know who is calling. When i get on the phone i get into this mood where i want to see wut the f*** is wrong with this broad...and trust me she is quite persistant if i dont pick up she doesnt stop calling...PSYCHOOOOO Block her. You can have this done through your ISP or some phones also have the ability to do so. You can also tell her to eff off and shut her down. I think most of us know how to do that.
Itsjustme55 Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 Hi Adam I suggest you tell her that you moved on and that her childish ways are going to earn her the right to not be your friend in the future. Also I know its a sucker move..lol..but tell her your honest feelings. Of how angry you are at the fact that she is dishing out to much info. You can let her know that its not a jealousy issue or what not, its just the principle of respect. How long have you been broken up for?
michael d Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 4 other friends? what? no can handle? restraining order is the one, plus the blocked number.
Itsjustme55 Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 Hi Adam, yeah its time you wrap that up..I agree with everyone else..block that number and keep it moving. She is just out to rub it in your face 24/7 and the more receptive you are to the info the worse it will get later on. Its just messing with your ego. Let her go!!! Good luck PS: nice pic
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