LiveKhaos Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 Hi! I recently found this site, and I like it A LOT... Everyones soooo helpful and nice... Anyways I just wanted to tell all of you my story and I want to know what you think... Because when in an LDR that you met online, its extremely difficult to tell others since many won't even come close to understanding you.... I apologize if this is too long... I've met this girl online, but it wasn't like neither of us was planning on meeting... We're both going to the same school in the Dominican Republic. We were online at a forum and started asking each other questions about the school. We would pm each other every single day back and forth, about the school and everything. At first I actually that she was a guy, till she corrected me...Lol After about a week of messaging we exchanged numbers, and she oh so bravely called me first... From there well lets just say neither the calls nor the messaging ever stopped... Its been about a month in a half and were still messaging each other on the forum (could use email but.....lol) all day, and we talk for no less than 3 hrs every night, and sometimes even 5 hrs! Even before seeing how she looked like (through pics) I became soo attracted to her character and personality.... thats something thats never happened to me... For a while even though I'm young (19) I thought I would never find such a girl that could understand me soo much, such a girl that makes me want to be better, such a girl that even though its only been a short amount of time I can see myself with her..period... I day dream, dream, and think about her all day! Its crazy... We both agreed on taking it slow and just taking our time... As of now she lives up north, and I live down south... But I'm going up there in December to visit family and foremost see her! One thing that really worries me is the fact that she's moving to the Dominican Republic in January and I'm moving over there in late July of next year! So were not going to be together for about 7 months, even though I have to go over there in between that time... You may say, its only a short period of time, but it worries me because I don't want her to go over there and be alone for 7 months waiting for me and she gets tired of it and looks for another guy!... But as of now, I told her that if there's even a doubt in her mind that this can't work out, or if she doesn't think that she could try it, then forget it, because I don't want to get hurt again...especially by someone I truly care about... She told me that she's willing to try... I've NEVER been able to open up to a girl like this! And neither has she with a guy... We talk about everything and anything (it really helps though that were both Dominicans..lol), it's like all of our conversations come natural and well ahhh.... I just wanted to tell someone without getting looked at very weird or like I'm crazy.... Its SOOOOO hard because she's so special to me and at times I want to just blurt it out to a lot of the people that are close to me (including my parents) but I just can't, I guess I don't know how too... (for now).. :-( She also wants to tell her parents, but she has no Idea how her parents are gonna perceive it... I know I have to meet her in person first but... As of now she's a friend and so much more than that to me... I feel as though I can tell her anything and everything in the world.... Anyways sorry for the ranting... So what do you all people think?
Author LiveKhaos Posted November 28, 2007 Author Posted November 28, 2007 I know its long and boring..but no one??
RavinHarpy Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 that's cute, I don't think you need to worry because she likely feels the exact same way, especially if she wanted to tell her parents about you. You're worrying too much and needlessly.
Author LiveKhaos Posted November 28, 2007 Author Posted November 28, 2007 that's cute, I don't think you need to worry because she likely feels the exact same way, especially if she wanted to tell her parents about you. You're worrying too much and needlessly. Yeah, I guess I am... I just don't want to loose something so special for no reason... The thing is that I know I'm ready to eventually step it up, but I don't know if she is... We both want to take it slow..but I don't want to take too too slow now...Lol I'm going to see her in December so lets see what happens...
purplebubbles Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 It's such an amazing feeling when you find someone that you connect with in that way. You'd be crazy to give it up, just because you're having doubts. She's probably feeling the exact same way! As for the parents, perhaps meet her first and then get it out in the open and enjoy being with your girlfriend
dancinggal Posted November 29, 2007 Posted November 29, 2007 I say, enjoy every stage as it comes. You're enjoying the getting know each other part right now, so be happy doing that. You're obviously crazy about her, and having a great time together. The rest can come later. Just enjoy the 'now'.
Author LiveKhaos Posted November 29, 2007 Author Posted November 29, 2007 It's such an amazing feeling when you find someone that you connect with in that way. You'd be crazy to give it up, just because you're having doubts. She's probably feeling the exact same way! As for the parents, perhaps meet her first and then get it out in the open and enjoy being with your girlfriend Jeah... Thanks...! Yup... It's an amazing feeling alright...I'm just gonna enjoy it... Your right I would be absolutely crazy to give it up for nothing...lol!....
Author LiveKhaos Posted November 29, 2007 Author Posted November 29, 2007 I say, enjoy every stage as it comes. You're enjoying the getting know each other part right now, so be happy doing that. You're obviously crazy about her, and having a great time together. The rest can come later. Just enjoy the 'now'. Yeah every stage that has come and will come I'll enjoy...no doubt about it... Mos def, I am crazy about her...lol I guess the "now" is what counts! Thanks!
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