scottyteal Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 This is a curly one guys - my g/f has manic depression. I knew about this from the start and went in with my eyes wide open... Unfortunately when they get stressed - they often fling their partners first - have to retreat and isolate themselves and then get back together again. Go figure - there's a lot of complex issues here trust me!! So I got the talk the other night - 'I can't be in a relationship at the moment'. She wants to remain friends but I want to do NC...She has this whole 'pressure' thing going on - thought I was putting pressure on her - where in reality most of it was due to her depression. [FONT=Arial][sIZE=2][COLOR=#000000]I checked my facebook account last night. I had changed my profile photo to one I took of myself soon after I had split with my old girlfriend Jan - where I had lost a lot of weight due to stress. I had once shown this to my girlfriend to show her how different I looked.[/COLOR][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][sIZE=2][COLOR=#000000]Anyway - I just wanted a new photo to use - and this was the only one I had...[/COLOR][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][sIZE=2][COLOR=#000000]My separated g/f saw this new photo on facebook yesterday and sent me an email saying: [/COLOR][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][sIZE=2][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Arial][sIZE=2][COLOR=#000000]'Why did you change your profile photo to this one? I hope I'm not making you feel like Jan did when you took this? Is that what you were meaning? Or am I paranoid'[/COLOR][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Arial]Should I respond - or just let it go??[/FONT]
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