nessa1980 Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 He says he would love to remain friends when I tell him I'm done. I tell him to bring my keys and other things.I have his things packed for him in the living room so when he comes over to talk he can get it and go. He decides to come before I get there. He left somethings behind and never brought mine, just my key. Then when I call him a coward for not facing me. He reponds as if he is mad that he opened the door to his things waiting on him. Why when he said he'd love to be friends still? So seeing all his things packed ready for him to go should have not affected him.What was that about? Is he coming back for the rest of his furniture? Why do i feel so bad?
cant let go Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 Correct me if i'm wrong. You broke up with him? If that is the case and he said that he wants to be friends, then he probably does. But many people go through a stage of anger after being rejected. Even the person doing the breaking up sometimes goes through this anger. It will take some time and a great deal of maturity on all ends to get past the anger and attempt to be friends. Don't expect it to happen overnight.
spooty Posted November 29, 2007 Posted November 29, 2007 even if you want to be friends you are still going to need some time apart, and the first step to doing that is returning things. he definitely left the things so that he'd have an excuse to come back and see you, he probably chickened out last time.
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