Mylife Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 You know how they say...best way to get over someone is to get under somebody else??...well u know what...its true.... Well I dont mean literally get under somebody else cuz it that is different for each individual person on how ready or willing they are to do that. But u know what...all of us...every single one of us can look at other beautiful sights cant we??... What I mean to say is what happened we me today...i was at school...had a dance practice thing for this show...and well first practice...and i m just into 6 weeks of the break up... So anyways...getting to the point...i was practicing...and then I saw...him...well not "HIM"..but a new him...as in this dude...that was just like OMG...drop dead gorgeous HOT!!!...hehe...he was in a blue muscle shirt and had the puuuurfect biceps for that shirt...he was tall and had the perfectt hair and everything...well anywayss enough about how hot this guy was.... What i really mean to say is that...i just saw him...and i realised for a second that what in the world am i running after/thinking about/moping around about/feeling crappy about/feeling sad about THE EX. I mean, I now have the capibility of being with a much HOTTER guy...hehe...even if i thought that the EX was the best man ever...what if...just what if...HE IS NOT??...and like this super SEXY dude has like an awsome personality or something... So I just thought...damn...I am glad he is gone...cuz now "if i want" i can have this eye candy...loll......and i just giggled to myself...and it felt soooo good. Well to be honest, I know for a fact that i m not ready to date and stuff as of yet...but u know...just the thought of having the possibility of dating this super hot guy feels soooo good ... Soo ppl...get up...look around u...at all the sexy possibilities u have now...and know...now u can date those super hot ppl...!!!...and be happy about that Link to post Share on other sites
Rayofsunshine Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 Thank you for that bit of inspiration. It comes at a time when I need it I am going to look at all my sexy possibilities that are out there! Link to post Share on other sites
randuff Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 I am going to look at all my sexy possibilities that are out there! *waves hand vigorously* Here I am LOL Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mylife Posted November 28, 2007 Author Share Posted November 28, 2007 Not a prob rofs..and yeah trust me...if u actually actually look..and like actually look at them and really truly think to urself...that omg...he/she is HOT!!...It feels soooo good...trust me...cuz i think after a break up the one thing we fear the most is not finding the same kinda love again with someone else...but seriously doing something as cute/childish/fun as this reassures u soo much its crazy... so yeah...i am feeling happy today...now just pray that i some how go up to this sexy possibility and tallk to him...even to just get his name...just so i can be like ME and XYZ....hehehe ....nicee!! and randuff hehe...the whole waves hand vigoursly made me laugh... Link to post Share on other sites
Leia Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 OMG! I know what you mean!! I just sat at a cafe earlier again and saw a bunch of hotties!! Blew my mind away and I thought to myself, why am I so hung up over my past relationships when there is a lot of guys out there? There are millions of available men out there... I just have to go through one by one to see which one suits me the most! I need to get myself over my fears! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mylife Posted November 28, 2007 Author Share Posted November 28, 2007 I just have to go through one by one to see which one suits me the most! I love how u say that...hehe...its true...i mean there are soo many choices out there now that its just like...while all these men r waiting for me...i am worried of not finding love?...or like feel sad about loosing the EX??...nott cool ..and now u can actually pick and choose...hehe Link to post Share on other sites
BrianG Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 OMG! I know what you mean!! I just sat at a cafe earlier again and saw a bunch of hotties!! Blew my mind away and I thought to myself, why am I so hung up over my past relationships when there is a lot of guys out there? There are millions of available men out there... I just have to go through one by one to see which one suits me the most! I need to get myself over my fears! If that picture is of you Leia, i highly doubt you will have any problems meeting guys. Link to post Share on other sites
Leia Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 I love how u say that...hehe...its true...i mean there are soo many choices out there now that its just like...while all these men r waiting for me...i am worried of not finding love?...or like feel sad about loosing the EX??...nott cool ..and now u can actually pick and choose...hehe LOL Thanks and yes, it's true! I have gotten over my ex-es but just not what I experienced. That is what is stopping me from dating... I just need more time before I can actually go out on a proper date with a guy.... but I love it that there is a lot of HAWT guys out there... to be honest, I look for someone that has a personality... intelligent... down to earth.... that's HAWT! If that picture is of you Leia, i highly doubt you will have any problems meeting guys. BrianG, you'd be surprise the amount of bad luck I had with men!!! Just read my story and you'll know... I don't have any problem meeting guys... just the right ones.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mylife Posted November 28, 2007 Author Share Posted November 28, 2007 yeah...leia i know i am not ready to date either...but for sure...i knw when i am ready...the possibilities are endless...and yeah...the personality thing is for sure a biggie for me too...but u know...its fun at this stage in the process to just nice to feast the eyes on the eye candies that just r so beautiful....(sorry no offense to any of the guys...hehe) Link to post Share on other sites
starlite Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 Brian- Youd be surprised. Even beautiful girls get dumped on. I am a pretty cute girl, I have that next door thing going for me...but my last bf cheated a lot. And yes, Leia is beautiful...but guys stink. Look at Reese Witherspoon and Sienna Miller. Both GORGEOUS...both got cheated on my their husbands with like 19 year olds! It's a crazy world. Link to post Share on other sites
starlite Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 BrianG, you'd be surprise the amount of bad luck I had with men!!! Just read my story and you'll know... I don't have any problem meeting guys... just the right ones.. Same here!!! Link to post Share on other sites
SYRACUSE03 Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 Attractive women get hit on all the time! It's the fear of rejection that makes us think twice before talking to them. I don't think that women realize that the man usually courts the woman, he proposes, he's the provider, etc. It's not in every case but most. It's a ton of pressure and a lot of expectations to live up to. Women have more chances to have a man come up to them than a woman coming up to a man. I'm sure that Leia or any other attractive woman goes near a group of guys, she wouldn't be turned away. However, when a good looking guy approaches a group of women, he already has to put his pride in his hand and leave it vulnerable. It's a tough thing to live up to but that's human nature. As for the guys, there are a bunch of great guys (me!!!!) out there. Just some women are attracted to the ones that make us all look bad. Hey work with me on this...a 36 year old needs something to look forward to! Link to post Share on other sites
JCD Posted November 29, 2007 Share Posted November 29, 2007 The trick is not to build expectations and not to fall in love way too fast. Otherwise you'll fear rejection because you don't want it to fail. Link to post Share on other sites
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