Relationship problems

[mistah]

My girlfriend told me the other night on the phone she was going out with her brother, her brother's friend ( a long time friend of her's for 1 year). I said ok I did not think anything of it. Well she came up to me today and told me that she kissed her friend, like a peck kiss. She called him about an hour later told her she was really sorry and called her friends which they told her to tell me about it which she did. She told me she kissed her friend and it was like a peck like she showed me. I could do nothing but stand there and look into her eyes and then she could not look at me in the face. She called me and asked what I was going to do and I told her honestly I don't know. I want to forgive her because we have a bunch of fun together and she is like my best friend. She admitted to her wrong doing, apologised to both people. I can tell she feels guilt by the tone of her voice and I want to continue going out with her but maybe I should spare myself I don't really know please help

[Da_1_n_OnlyN3na]

first of all why did she kiss her guy friend for?? haha..its seems to me that shes interested in him if she did that you dont just peck guys just because they are your friend..haha please...and maybe you can let her pass this time maybe it was just playing around just tell her you dont like those kind of games and to take you serious because your her bf not that boii...

[LoveLace]

I agree to let this one pass...sounds like she probably learned something from the mistake...but I would question any similar behavior if it happens in the future..

[girl18]

this all depends on you. this type of thing can lead you to major trust issues with her. are u going to wonder things now when she goes out without you? if you think you can handle it, then stay with her. if not, let her go. i think it's good that she was honest with you and told you about it, that is a good thing. however, this is totally your decision. sometimes things like this lead to worse things, and sometimes they don't.

[rdnjr]

I would dump her man. It doesn't matter that she is sorry now or not. If she really did care about you and your feelings then she wouldn't have done it in the first place. She really wasn't sorry then because she chose to do it. It will probably happen again. She thinks she can get away with it this time, then she will think that she can get away with it next time. I've been through the same crap, it never ends good either way. It might cause trust issues for you, kind of like a gap of air that can never be closed. Trust is number one thing in a relationship and if both cannot be trusted 100% then it isn't gong to work out, it just causes uncertainty and insecurites. Whatever you do, good luck man.