tomwiz Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 Hey there, some of you may have read my thread about a week ago. Anyways, I met this great girl off of match, we had a good first date with an awkward goodnight kiss. She canceled on me once, we went out for a second date, it went well, a little bit of a makeout session, her stating that there was something special about me and although she didnt really feel the butterflys at first (she actually stated that she didnt feel I was interested...I'm awful at picking up signals). So the day after our second date, I call to just say hi and she suggests that we watch a movie at my house. She comes over, we watch the movie and then begin to get very close, she was hugging, kissing etc. She asks if there is somewhere more comfortable we can "make out" haha. Then pulls me into the bedroom, we begin to fool around, no sex though, it easily could have happened however I didn't really want to this early. Well since that time, we have been talking everyday, for about an hour or so each day. Things seem to be going pretty well. We were talking last night ( I was helping her with a computer problem) and ask about if she uses limewire (often a source of viruses). She states that yeah she just has a couple of porn movies on it. I must say I was a bit shocked, she was kind of agressive sexually but hey. Is this normal for girls, a hint? Well aside from that, things have been going well. It seems like we are getting to know eachother pretty well. She makes reference to things "we" should do, go see movies, go here and there, etc. I just would like to know how on the phone to adopt more of a flirty sort of tone, things to say to let her know I'm interested etc? Additionally, do you think us fooling around is an indication that she is romantically interested?
Krytie TV Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 Do you think people tend to make out on someone's bed if they're not interested? I'm sorry, but that's a bit of a silly question, don't you think?
Author tomwiz Posted November 27, 2007 Author Posted November 27, 2007 Yeah, I would say its kind of a silly question, but I guess I just thought that it was strange that she said she didnt feel the "butterflys" then all the sudden kind of jumped me.
Author tomwiz Posted November 27, 2007 Author Posted November 27, 2007 any other opinions/suggetsions?
Leia Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 any other opinions/suggetsions? Leading a guy to his bedroom would be the last thing I'd do if I wasn't interested in him. If I did that, it only means I am interested. Very. I love making out but I only make out with someone that has a potential to be something more than just a make out buddy. As for her having porn on her Limewire, is that a big deal for you? You have anything against women watching porn? A couple of porn clips on Limewire is ok... if it's FULL of porn then.... I would freak out!
CD111 Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 There is nothing wrong with a girl having porn movies. It just probably means she has a broad imagination in bed.
Author tomwiz Posted November 27, 2007 Author Posted November 27, 2007 Yeah, the whole porn thing didn't really bother me, I've just always dated "prudish" girls and it was kind of different. I have some on my computer, so that would be awful hypocritcal for me to judge, it was just different. I guess her feelings sort of changed, after she said the whole butterflys thing, as opposed to being put off by it, I sort of amped up my game and told her that there's alot more to me than meets the eye. I guess her feelings must've changed since I made a better effort? Anybody have any other feelings or better yet, any suggestions for a flirtier phone call...we talk alot and about a variety of things, however it doesnt have that same sort of semi sexual spark it does in person
littlepiggy1 Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 You found a girl who likes porn? DON'T LET HER GET AWAY! This is like finding gold my friend.
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