phillip2 Posted November 26, 2007 Posted November 26, 2007 i know this post must come all the time but my boyfriend just split up with me, it was only a month weve been going out but i reaqlly felt something there,and now i have nothing to look forward to and got nothing to do. i hate it, were still going to be friends. im just so fed up advice appreciated?
michael d Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 aloha there. sorry you are hurting like me and so many on here. all i can say is, 1 month or 1 year or twenty and it still hurts like hell. to lose someone sucks. however, it is part of life for SO MANY people. it's the same advice i'm sure everyone will say who has been there. you've just got to realize, you cannot control another's feelings about love. you can only control how you react to them. so, get yourself back on track, do what you like to do and stay busy, and time will heal the hurt. how much time depends on each situation and person but you will be ok one day. make it SOON for yourself, do not dwell and DO remain friends. who knows what the future will bring? you may get back together or you may find someone even better for yourself. be positive and learn and grow. good luck. mike d
Leia Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 You will have something to look forward. Not now but you will when you get over him or start hanging out more with your friends. I enjoy going out by myself so that I can go sit at a cafe and watch people pass by. Bring a book with you, if you love to read and just enjoy your freedom!
Author phillip2 Posted November 27, 2007 Author Posted November 27, 2007 thanks its so hurtfull and i dont keep very busy anyway so.
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