shayna Posted November 26, 2007 Posted November 26, 2007 My continuing saga... Though my ex fervently denies it, I'm positive he's still sleeping with one of his "convenient" friends. All the signs are there. It hurts doubly that they would make a good pair- except that she is from overseas and would need him to marry her to stay here when she's finished with her work visa. They flirt with each other all the time (I've heard from friends as I've started NC) and go on the same group skiing trips. They've always gotten along smashingly. Also, he's planning dinners with friends over at our (now his) condo much more often than when we were together. Our shared friends are starting to feel the tension trying to decide whom to spend time with- and I think he's winning because I'm so sad and not much fun these days. I'm so messed up now- I know I have to move on but after 8.5 years with the love of my life and after trying so many forms of therapy and anti-depressants and driving my friends crazy with worry, nothing takes the pain away. I want to die. And trying to keep my head afloat in medical school is too tough.
Scorpio13c Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 Hi Shayna, I'm not familiar with your breakup, so i need to ask, did you leave him? If so why? Short of those answers, i can only say to you, right now, be strong! Btw, there is no "Winning" in hearbreak.. I feel you pain Scorp
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