Males or shall i say this one Male

[Sweetgapeach028]

my bf and i were together for over a year, i stopped talking to him for certain reasons, we never really discussed being friends or not, and he didnt make an attempt to contact me the whole month of Oct i stopped talking to him Sep 29th, well on monday Nov 19th i sent him a text message asking if we could meet on wed for a thanksgiving meal, since i still wanted to be his friend, i got no response from him, i texted him again saying he should of let me know either way, well on thanksgiving he texted me happy thanksgiving, i replied back same to you, i asked him if he was enjoying his day, again no response, i then texted him and said i am happy for you honestly and truthful, and i hope one day you can be civil and talk to me on the phone to see whats going on in our lives, i wrote that since i persumed he has found someone else and i didnt want no hard feelings between us since he was ignoring me, again no response, and i havent texted him since, but why is he doing this to me, hes acting like the year we were together means nothing to him, we never discussed not being friends or nothing, but i have told him several times before i still want to be his friend, but why is he just ignoring me, why did he send me that text on thanksgiving? Does he still have feeings for me and hes just trying to ignore me and move on?

[EYECANDY000]

First off happy belated thanks giving sweetgapeach!!!

 

It definately seems that this guy has moved on. I know it can be very hard considering the fact that you guys have spent a whole year together with shared emotions, physical, and eveything else. It seems that this guy either has already found someone new and sont want to disrepect his new girlfriend by keeping his ex in the picture, or just plain moved on. When he texted you Happy Thanks giving he was indeed just being cordial, but I sure he got all the rest of the messages. Do yourself and favor and just put him in the past since it seems thats what he has done with you. Let that last text message be the last one.

[Jilly Bean]

So, you stopped talking to him, dumped him, and now you are wondering why "he is doing this to me" when he doesn't respond when you decide you want to be friends with him? That's mighty selfish, don't you think?

 

He was hurt by you, and is done with you. If you care for him at all, then leave him alone.

[Sean0775]

Being friends after a breakup like that doesn't work. If he still had feelings for you at the time, you can never be friends because that will always get in the way. Just move on, nothing to see here.