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how can i proove to my now ex gf that in fact i do respect her as a person, eventhoug in the past it did seem like I did not due to lack of communication?

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A good start would be to ask her this question.

 

The next step would be to honour her requests.

 

I suppose if you went to a local bookstore and took out a book or two on effective communications and behaving well in relationships, that might impress her as well -- and it might even teach you a thing or two.

 

Good luck!

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My ex went out of his way (it appeared) to make it look as though he did not pay attention to a word I told him.

He flicked onto some thing on TV about Japan one day and turned to me and said, "you speak fluent Japanese don't ya? what are they saying?" I was shocked and told him so. All he said was "you see? I do listen to what you say. You told me that the night we met."

 

Making sure that she sees that you listen to what you say to her is another good way.Somewhat obvious, but somehow always missed by both sides.

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If she's your ex - why do you need to prove anything to her?

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