xenonsrt10 Posted November 25, 2007 Posted November 25, 2007 I am an introvert and am very passive and never seem to be the one to make the first move and ask someone out, comfortably that is. Do I just need to wait for that "one special person" or should I brave the storm and try to beat out my introverted nature? Thanks.
Curmudgeon Posted November 25, 2007 Posted November 25, 2007 I am an introvert and am very passive and never seem to be the one to make the first move and ask someone out, comfortably that is. Do I just need to wait for that "one special person" or should I brave the storm and try to beat out my introverted nature? Thanks. ...start working on the latter then perhaps you and the former will meet somewhere in the middle. Get involved in something you like -- sports, art, music, theater, animals, you name it. It's how you meet like-minded people and the easy conversations should just follow naturally.
Tony T Posted November 25, 2007 Posted November 25, 2007 I am an introvert and am very passive and never seem to be the one to make the first move and ask someone out, comfortably that is. Do I just need to wait for that "one special person" or should I brave the storm and try to beat out my introverted nature? Thanks. Sitting around waiting for someone else to make the first move will get you nowhere. Most people mistake introverts for unapproachable snobs. You don't want that to happen. Take baby steps...one week just smile at everybody you pass...the next week smile and nod your head....the next week, smile, nod your head and say hello. In no time, you will find yourself in some nice social situations. Perhaps some education to raise your self esteem as well as some counseling may help. You aren't getting any younger.
Sw3etdev1L Posted November 25, 2007 Posted November 25, 2007 just be yourself ...instead of thinking of yourself as introverted, think of yourself as a coward...I mean...don't you want to fight against being a coward?? be brave!!!...what if someone rejects you???...maybe the first times will hurt and later you will get accostumed until one girl says yes and you like her and you get into a relatinoshiop....it's ok being introverted, it is not ok being a coward.
knaveman Posted November 26, 2007 Posted November 26, 2007 you just have to put yourself out there and take the good with the bad.
Author xenonsrt10 Posted November 29, 2007 Author Posted November 29, 2007 physical qualities: well lets see: around 6 feet, average weight, stocky, dark brown hair (cut short), look younger than i am (kind of a baby-ish face) pretty average physical qualities: i dont stand out in really any particular area; maybe except height since i am taller than average. the sad thing is, the best thing i have going for me is my taste in cars (I drive a 2007 Lexus), good food, and high-class things. could i use that stuff to my advantage?
Author xenonsrt10 Posted December 24, 2007 Author Posted December 24, 2007 physical qualities: well lets see: around 6 feet, average weight, stocky, dark brown hair (cut short), look younger than i am (kind of a baby-ish face) pretty average physical qualities: i dont stand out in really any particular area; maybe except height since i am taller than average. the sad thing is, the best thing i have going for me is my taste in cars (I drive a 2007 Lexus), good food, and high-class things. could i use that stuff to my advantage?
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