Tomcat33 Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 Pardon me... I'll just grab my U.S made shotgun, move back out in the woods and start hunting my own food and living in tanned skins again. I'm impressed...the mental gymnastics around here would leave some of guru's I've met amazed. Good luck ladies...may you get all that you've earned. Great co-out... for a hypcrite that is! and I say that with all my love. ta ta
Owl Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 I'm being told...by an other woman...that I'm a hypocrite for saying that an OP is responsible for hurting the marriages of the MM she's involved with? AMAZING!
reboot Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 I'm being told...by an other woman...that I'm a hypocrite for saying that an OP is responsible for hurting the marriages of the MM she's involved with? AMAZING!You are wasting your time my friend. Been there, got the t-shirt.
luvmy2ns Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 You are wasting your time my friend. Been there, got the t-shirt. Yeah, well Reboot, someone's gonna buy a T shirt right back at you and teach you a lesson! No one is expecting anyone here to solve all of the world's problems, but it's not hard to NOT shovel crap on the people in your own community.
noforgiveness Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 Great co-out... for a hypcrite that is! and I say that with all my love. ta ta Oh please quit pussyfooting around tomcat. You know it's wrong to enter into a sexual relationhip with a married person. Just admit it.
Tomcat33 Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 I'm being told...by an other woman...that I'm a hypocrite for saying that an OP is responsible for hurting the marriages of the MM she's involved with? AMAZING! No you are being told by an OW that your moral choices are no better than ours, we all hurt innocent third parties for our own selfish reasons it's just that some causes are more "justified" than others. Amazing indeed!!
Tomcat33 Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 Oh please quit pussyfooting around tomcat. You know it's wrong to enter into a sexual relationhip with a married person. Just admit it. Who's pussyfutting? I may called tomcat but I stomp I don't pussyfoot. Yeah of course I know it's wrong, it was VERY wrong for ME.
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 28, 2007 Author Posted November 28, 2007 Yeah, well Reboot, someone's gonna buy a T shirt right back at you and teach you a lesson! No one is expecting anyone here to solve all of the world's problems, but it's not hard to NOT shovel crap on the people in your own community. Hahaha.. supporting other posters but you can't answer your own questions... I ask you again: Why didn't you stepped up to defend that old lady?
Owl Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 So basically...if we're all morally corrupt enough to shop at Wal-Mart, that makes sleeping with someone ese's spouse OK too. Got it Tomcat. Thanks.
Tomcat33 Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 No one is expecting anyone here to solve all of the world's problems, but it's not hard to NOT shovel crap on the people in your own community. Oh I see we should take care of our own community the rest of the world can eat sht and die. That's a commedable attitude. But heck as long as I keep my legs closed in my community then I am an outstanding citizen. My my, we sure set very high goals for ourselves in this thing called life, don't we? :laugh:
Tomcat33 Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 So basically...if we're all morally corrupt enough to shop at Wal-Mart, that makes sleeping with someone ese's spouse OK too. Got it Tomcat. Thanks. NO your selective attention just makes me laugh. You pay attention to one thing that is morally unacceptable in life, because you say it is, and you totally ignore another very big part of your life in which you contribute to in a very non-challant manner and deem the rest of the mistfits as unacceptable human beings because they don't live like you. The irony is they DO live like you only they are more OPEN about their selfishness and that's why so many of you moral junkies have such a big issue with people like Lizzie she is comfrontable in her own skin, you with all your moral prejudices can't seem to find happiness even if it bit you in the ronson.
luvmy2ns Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 Oh I see we should take care of our own community the rest of the world can eat sht and die. That's a commedable attitude. But heck as long as I keep my legs closed in my community then I am an outstanding citizen. My my, we sure set very high goals for ourselves in this thing called life, don't we? :laugh: You have a hard time reading. Refer back to the post about the elderly woman. Or the one about cutting in lines. Or a person could be a dick and take all the good holiday vacation time for themselves just because they have seniority and CAN. Or playing music loud late at night and not giving a good goddamn about your neighbors. Or maybe you could volunteer at local charities - really giving of your own free time like I do. Or... The list could go on and on, but with your smug attitude, you refuse to see the obvious.
luvmy2ns Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 Oh I see we should take care of our own community the rest of the world can eat sht and die. That's a commedable attitude. But heck as long as I keep my legs closed in my community then I am an outstanding citizen. My my, we sure set very high goals for ourselves in this thing called life, don't we? :laugh: You have a hard time reading. Refer back to the post about the elderly woman. Or the one about cutting in lines. Or a person could be a dick and take all the good holiday vacation time for themselves just because they have seniority and CAN. Or playing music loud late at night and not giving a good goddamn about your neighbors. Or maybe you could volunteer at local charities - really giving of your own free time like I do. And, yeah. NOT f'ing the spouses/boyfriends of other women. Or... The list could go on and on, but with your smug attitude, you refuse to see the obvious.
White Flower Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 So many people want to hate Lizzie because we like to believe that if there weren't girls like her out there, our Hs wouldn't have a place to go and cheat. We envy her because she has what we want--our H's attention and...well...manhood. But if she were married, chances are her H would be doing the same thing with someone like.....you. Why? There are a multitude of reasons. For most, I think it is simply variety. We as a spouse cannot provide variety. Oh, we can change our hair color and stuff like that, but most cheaters (of the serial type) really just want variety. But, not all cheaters are serial cheaters, as we have learned here. I think this was misunderstood by most. I think that most married women want their husbands all to themselves, thus envy Lizzie by having that part of our husband. Perhaps envy was a bad choice of terms. I could have said jealous of, resentful at, or angry with, etc. And even though she has that secret part of him, she is still willing to share it with us. Some will see it as bragging; others as sharing her feelings. I see it as knowledge which adds to the persecptive of the entire picture.
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 28, 2007 Author Posted November 28, 2007 You have a hard time reading. Refer back to the post about the elderly woman. Or the one about cutting in lines. Or a person could be a dick and take all the good holiday vacation time for themselves just because they have seniority and CAN. Or playing music loud late at night and not giving a good goddamn about your neighbors. Or maybe you could volunteer at local charities - really giving of your own free time like I do. And, yeah. NOT f'ing the spouses/boyfriends of other women. Or... The list could go on and on, but with your smug attitude, you refuse to see the obvious. haaa-hemmm... and you are still avoiding my question..
Tomcat33 Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 You have a hard time reading. Refer back to the post about the elderly woman. Or the one about cutting in lines. Or a person could be a dick and take all the good holiday vacation time for themselves just because they have seniority and CAN. Or playing music loud late at night and not giving a good goddamn about your neighbors. Or maybe you could volunteer at local charities - really giving of your own free time like I do. Or... The list could go on and on, but with your smug attitude, you refuse to see the obvious. Yes I do, what's the "obvious" spell it out for me because this encryption does nothing for me...
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 28, 2007 Author Posted November 28, 2007 I think this was misunderstood by most. I think that most married women want their husbands all to themselves, thus envy Lizzie by having that part of our husband. Perhaps envy was a bad choice of terms. I could have said jealous of, resentful at, or angry with, etc. And even though she has that secret part of him, she is still willing to share it with us. Some will see it as bragging; others as sharing her feelings. I see it as knowledge which adds to the persecptive of the entire picture. Thanks WF... I enjoy your posts.. you are non-judgemental and you do NOT have the 'holier than thou' syndrome... I like that about you.
luvmy2ns Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 Yes I do, what's the "obvious" spell it out for me because this encryption does nothing for me... I think the "encryption" of which you speak is the filter between the monitor and your irises.
White Flower Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 Thanks WF... I enjoy your posts.. you are non-judgemental and you do NOT have the 'holier than thou' syndrome... I like that about you. I'm blushing.......
nadiaj2727 Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 SO quit being a hypocrite and telling me it is wrong to covet thy neighbour's wife when you have no qualms about killing thy foreign neighbour's children. What?! I'm sorry but that's just plain ridiculous and not a logical argument. We can't all save the world and be Mother Teresas but we should all strive to live moral personal lives.
nadiaj2727 Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 No you are being told by an OW that your moral choices are no better than ours, we all hurt innocent third parties for our own selfish reasons it's just that some causes are more "justified" than others. Are you for real? You seriously think this way? I think you must be saying this just to get someone's goat or something, I can't believe that you actually think this way. Wow. What a sad way to think. I'm sorry, I just can't believe it.
nadiaj2727 Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 I think this was misunderstood by most. I think that most married women want their husbands all to themselves, thus envy Lizzie by having that part of our husband. Perhaps envy was a bad choice of terms. I could have said jealous of, resentful at, or angry with, etc. And even though she has that secret part of him, she is still willing to share it with us. Some will see it as bragging; others as sharing her feelings. I see it as knowledge which adds to the persecptive of the entire picture. OK I see what you mean now White Flower, thanks for explaining. I definitely understand being resentful of or angry with etc. I hope things have been going well with you.
luvmy2ns Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 What?! I'm sorry but that's just plain ridiculous and not a logical argument. We can't all save the world and be Mother Teresas but we should all strive to live moral personal lives. Thank you for "getting it."
nadiaj2727 Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 Thank you for "getting it." I don't know what there is to get, I don't see how anyone could see this as logical thinking?!? I could do anything I want that's wrong and then say, "Well, you don't help the starving children in Africa" or "you buy things that were made from child labor in other countries" (which yes in our sad world is nearly impossible to do unless we are going to make our own clothes shoes etc. out of natural elements or something), "therefore, you are just as bad as me." That sounds like the most pathetic attempt to justify one's wrong behavior that I've ever heard. It's laughable and it's hard to take this person seriously at all after she insists on some crazy argument like that. I'm sorry but it just is. People should look at themselves and decide if what they personally are doing is right or wrong, not refuse to do so because someone else isn't feeding children in Africa or something. ?!?!!? That is such a ridiculous idea I can't even believe anyone can seriously state it.
Author Lizzie60 Posted November 29, 2007 Author Posted November 29, 2007 What?! I'm sorry but that's just plain ridiculous and not a logical argument. We can't all save the world and be Mother Teresas but we should all strive to live moral personal lives. You got it.. I am the Mother Theresa of married men..
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