zelda579 Posted November 25, 2007 Posted November 25, 2007 Hi okay this is my story. Well, it has been 7 months since my ex broke up with me and I still feel like crap. He broke up and supposedly doesn't know exactly why. Ofcourse that is a bunch of bull**** but anyway going on. After the break up I decided no contact and did it for like 2-3 months. Then after those months he came back later asking permission to talk to me on the phone again. I said yes thinking that maybe he wanted to start something up again. Well we started talking and he would ask if I had been with anyone since the break up and all the usual questions but never anything about going back together. I never did either. Well as time went by he would start talking to me in a dirty way and I told him to stop and he said that he acts that way because he still wants me although I never slept with him because I don't want to sleep with any boyfriend until marriage. But now I know he just wants me for that because if he still loved me he would already asked me back and he hasn't. Still, he says that I'm one of the coolest persons he's ever met but he doesn't want me???? I ask him if that's all he wants me for and he says that he's not interested in just that but also my friendship because we get along really well. He says that were friends that still want each other and that describes us. I mean what the hell!? What the **** is his problem? Now, I just had enough and don't want to talk to him anymore but this time for good because he's just wasting my time. What do I tell him? Do I give him an explanation or what do I do?
analyseThis Posted November 25, 2007 Posted November 25, 2007 tell him his lack of commitment and clarity in his choice of whom to be with is not something you need to put up with. Tell him your not some one night stand or FWB (friends with benefit) type. Then cut contact. Stick to your principles and don't let him make u feel worthless or unwanted or depressed. He is not the end all and know all of what is out there. my 2 cents
hollaxatholly Posted November 26, 2007 Posted November 26, 2007 I think it's hard for a guy to be with a girl who isn't willing to have sex before marriage or something like that. I know it sucks, believe me I know...I have the same problem. Well, I did...Don't let him talk you in to it or anything like that. Don't change for him...I believe a guy will come along who will understand that, and respect that and not just be about sex....just keep this guy as a friend...easier said than done though. I don't know how you could change it, because it sounds like he def. wants sex and unless your willing to give it to him, he probably won't do well with a relationship...nothing you can do though. Whatever you do though, don't have sex with him to try to keep him, you'll def. regret it... You are definitely not worthless!! I know sometimes being in this situation can make you feel this way. I swear your not though...this can't be the end of the world, no matter how it feels. The fact is that you just have different beliefs and values than he does...and you need to find someone who can respect that. Thats all....
Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted November 26, 2007 Posted November 26, 2007 haha omg girl i have been told the same stupid shyt before and trust me thats all that biitch wants from you that pussy.. he said i was a great girl and he would always ask me to chil with him and always tried to do something with me.. haha dont explain anything to him hon just dont answer his calls and trust me later on since he one of those guys your going to start hating him all that love you got will turn into hate trust me!! forget about him! hes going to keep calling you just dont pick up!! hes going to get anoying soon you will see..
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