Music Man Posted November 25, 2007 Posted November 25, 2007 My Ex dumped me 6 weeks ago. I did everything wrong by texting,emailing and phone.We were married for a year and have dated the last year. She finally came to see me a week and a half ago, We talked about everything I told her I loved her and wanted everything back, We ended up going to bed, The next morning she called me and told me there was someone else and what we did was wrong. I cant sleep, eat, I dont even want to live. Couldnt go to thanksgiving with family because I didnt want to show my pain. I am 46 and my only freinds are at work. I hate my life . I sit by the phone in hope, I am going craxy, I just dont think life is worth it anymore. please I need some help.
jerbear Posted November 25, 2007 Posted November 25, 2007 Honestly, the hard part is sitting by the phone hoping things will get better. Many things get worse before they get better. If there is someone, well she has to deal with that person now with what you've two have done. The past is the past, it can't be rewritten. Somethings you can do is to take the first step to work on yourself. Do things you want to do, make a todo list and work on checking things off. The friends you have at work? Join them for happy hour, start going out and eat out so you'll not sitting at home. Get rid of the morning coffee maker. Yes I know, the thing I suggest costs money but you have to be out there and meet people. Not going to meet anyone when you are drinking your morning coffee at home or having dinner by yourself.
Author Music Man Posted November 25, 2007 Author Posted November 25, 2007 [COLOR=#008000]Let me also addthat she told me the reason she cant be with me is that she cant kep her hands off of me and that we are only physical...Ouch [/COLOR]
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