jimmer21 Posted November 25, 2007 Posted November 25, 2007 i never thought she would call, short story, we are 19 - 18 18 months together. was her birthday and iignored it and she rang me at 1 in the morning to meet up so i reluctantly did, we kissed and flirted she asked if i was ok who i was seeing and tlked about old times and how the way we kiss is sooomuch better thananyone else we has kissed since. she at the end of the night said about being friends or backto nocontact which was confusing. of course i want her back but i chased her for 2 solid weeeks and got pooed on so i wasnt overly nice wen i met up with her. wjhat do i do about the situation now. i mean she said i have to shhhh about the kiss and stuff cus her parents are realy against us meeting up.she almost cried at one point so she must have feelings but she said that we have moved on so its oki to be friends even though at the time shesaid we wernt friends before so not after. what is going on ???? she said thatwe both seeing diff ppl but her person wasnt the same and they artnt going to be a cuple so say but i am so confused feel not back to square one but a lil set back. any pointers would realy help. any more info i can add if needed thanks guys
Leia Posted November 25, 2007 Posted November 25, 2007 How long has it been since the break up? If it wasn't too long ago, it's quite understandable that she is confused of what she wants and she has made you confused as well. You chased her for 2 weeks and no response from her? Doesn't that tell you anything? Maybe it's because things aren't going the way she wanted to with the other guy that made her call you up. Did you think of that? Could that be the reason?
Author jimmer21 Posted November 25, 2007 Author Posted November 25, 2007 its been about two months and ive been in no contact since i stoped chasin n it was her bday yday and she called me a few ours after it passed. na i dont think its with the guy she int leave for him she left cus i treated her bad which maybe true but i loved her so much and dint see whati was doing. she was drunk so i duno if i should just ignore it
Author jimmer21 Posted November 26, 2007 Author Posted November 26, 2007 why wont you lot help me out by givinyour opinions please im sooo boed today help me out guys
Author jimmer21 Posted November 26, 2007 Author Posted November 26, 2007 she said things like she wished the argument never happened and we worked out and she missed me had feelings and stuff and then shuts the do again pretends it didnt happen is she just playin with me. i sent her a messege sayin look either we hav e a proper tlk about it all soon or you end all contact cus i dont wana be freidns and ive come along way and wont lrt u ruin it
Leia Posted November 26, 2007 Posted November 26, 2007 why wont you lot help me out by givinyour opinions please im sooo boed today help me out guys Sorry... what do you want to hear? She doesn't want to have anything to do with you... if she did, she wouldn't ask you to sush about the kiss!
Author jimmer21 Posted November 26, 2007 Author Posted November 26, 2007 well we spoke on msn, she cant risk givin me anuva try, shes happy atm she sees a guy kinda but even tho he dont compare to me she doesnt wana be with me. which i am now goin into no contact and ignor her wen she says hi next time. is she just stringin me along or just truthfuly wana be mates
sedgwick Posted November 26, 2007 Posted November 26, 2007 ANUVA?!?!? does that mean "another?" what is the problem with the word "another?" whenever anyone under 20 posts on here, my despair for the fate of the english language kicks into hyperdrive. i want to take these posts seriously, but i can't even make it through them.
Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 she misses what you guys had but you cant let her string you in..thats the problem when you really like a person you dont listen to no one but your heart and sometimes your heart makes you do crazy things and then you get hurt...we never know when is the right time to use our brain or our hearts...and because of that you just go for the first thing that comes up just to see that person again and give it another shot to get them back.. you did wrong by kissing her that night.. it was not a good idea even to go and meet up with her. she doesnt know if she wants to be with you but she wants to keep you around.. dont you just hate that?? nd i dont see anything wrong with the word "anuva" instead of "another"...lol i mean this isnt english class hahaha
kitkat289 Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 anuva...lolzz sounds cute but is it an english word?
Leia Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 anuva...lolzz sounds cute but is it an english word? Maybe OP spells it the way OP says it.... sometimes you tend to spell words according to your accent... make sense, no?
Author jimmer21 Posted November 27, 2007 Author Posted November 27, 2007 so yet ANUVA post from me lol. yeah i realised it now that she stringin me on, i keep lettin my self into the hurt of this all cus i love her so much but she said i would make sum1 else very happy, shes happy being single and she admited we have amain chemistry but its not a good enuff reason to be together. i dont know weather she is just stringin me along or she actuly wants to be frends. i sway between the both. i never fort it would be like this betwen us. maybe she lost hold of me wen i ignored her bday and now she found out i still long for her will carry on being single and seeing the other kiddie which she even admits to me istn the same as me but i duno now she nows she vould have me back but i guess she doesnt. i am now goin in to no contact. does this seem like the kinda situation where she will call and cum back again if i ignor her for long enuff like last time? i will just ignor her mssges untill she rings then say wot is your reason for callin do u want me back? then fone down if she says no good plan?
Author jimmer21 Posted November 27, 2007 Author Posted November 27, 2007 well its either that, or i get mean and tell her bollocks to being freinds get hell outa my life, tell her lil man that she came runnin to me we got jiggy and she sed u aint nuffin on me and also tell her family that aswell as they fink i chased her and she ignored me all this time and slag me off so it wouldget um all back and would end any chance of us gettin together for ever
vivrantflo Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 What's up? The only thing that I can advise to you, is to move on right now. This is the perfect time to set her aside, and concentrate on yourself. I understand that you are hurting, and that you want her back. But on the other hand, she made it clear to you that she wants to be single, and that she's happy being single. In no way am I saying that you two will never be together, but for now, you can't be. So you might as well make the best of this situation, and work on yourself. Hang out with friends, take up a hobby.. just put some time and distance in between you two. This way, it gives her time to think about what she has lost in you, and most importantly, it gives you time to get over the situation, so you can heal, and move on to someone who wants to be with you! Take care and good luck!
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