empress Posted November 25, 2007 Posted November 25, 2007 hi everyone..i need some little help here... i found out that the guy i deeply in love with is going out with his good friend (whom i know as well)... he once told me that he would never accept her in his life and i trust him.. but i always very insecure that they are very close from time to time... i see him almost once a week, but sometimes longer when he is overseas. he treat me as good friend and someone he close with.. i always in love with him and he affect everyminute in my life. we have sex and hangout like couple.. but he never hold my hand in the public or infront of his friend.. it affect me alot about this.. cos i feel that he is ashame of me, it affect my confident very badly. last month, his father and mother in town, he brought them to visit that good friend (who stay at diff country) according to him, they have a good time and his parents likes her very much.. i only met his da few times and never met his mom.. when i told him that i am jealous about this.. he said he has no time to worry how i feel... few days ago, i found out that their conversation over the sms... he never send me such nice and caring msg all these years.,. but theie msg are so caring ans sweet. i am jealous and i cant take it...i throw some bad temper and he dun care(like usual) even if i am upset... he is relocating and i guess he never going to contact me again. he didnt pick up my call the other day, when i called him few times.. never reply or respond to my msg... then i send him that " pick up or never" he answer.. and saying that he was taking a nap and i being a drama queen, then he put down his phone...he never contact me since... i knew that he wont contact me at first forever unless contact him first... i am going crazy... i donno how to cope with this anymore.. i am thinking about him every minute.. and the image of him and his good friend keep popping out in my mind... i tried to not thinking about him but i cant.. i know i cant blame him from doing this to me.. i am the one who making this bad... how can you control your mind? insecurity is driving me crazy... i am very sad that he is relocating and never include me in his life. ple help me.. sincerely thank you for taking your time to read my post.
Leia Posted November 25, 2007 Posted November 25, 2007 This is a hard situation to be in and I'm sorry that you're in it. From what I have read, it seems that he has interest in the other girl and not you. I'm not sure how he could have done all the things he did with you and not want to have something more with you. Frankly speaking, I am trying to figure out about men myself! Some men can be mind-boggling! If he really felt something more for you, you should have been receiving those sweet smses from him but you didn't. The only way I know you will recover is by ignoring him and move on. It's not easy but it is for the best. He is relocating so to make it work is even harder.
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