Sw3etdev1L Posted November 25, 2007 Posted November 25, 2007 I don't believe in love...as love.. Truth of the matter is that love is nonexistant..it is just a term used to add up so many things that involve committment between a couple such as respect, trust, support, the will to want to be with a person in a routine and be able to share things in common. It involves reproduction, sexual attraction and good sex. If you don't have good sex, or any sort of committment between one of the parties then, the relationship is doomed...and it hurts. why?? because love was just a caprice, an ideal, a fantasy that was not fulfilled. whenever the things that add up to the term love do exist that is a true loving relationship....so why do we have to cope with breaking up with a relationship that just didn't work and who was just going to hurt us??...why give a non functional relationship a second try if we already know it is not going to work out the second time??...it involves fantasy and an illusion of something that was never there and that will never be there... I hope you understand my way of view..peace.
Scorpio13c Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 I understand you Swe3 I think that sometimes people stay in non loving relationships because of security issuses ( they don't want to be alone), other times it is just because it is comfortable. I agree too that it is sometimes fantasy, but many people live a fantasy world at times.. myself included ( Scorp
JCD Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 Love is a biological reaction resulting in bonding to your mate. When you break up, you experience withdrawals of love chemicals and it takes time for you to heal. If you didn't love your mate then you don't feel pain as much or at all. The reason we seek love again is because we want to be addicted to those love chemicals again. They make us feel good.
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