ConfusedAboutLife Posted November 24, 2007 Posted November 24, 2007 I've never posted anything on a forum before, I'm a little nervous about what kind of replies I may, or may not receive. My story. I dated a guy for four months, and we had both decided we were meant to be, and would end up together forever. He actually unofficially asked if I would marry him...one day. I said yes. That part especially confused me, when he broke it off saying he couldn't see a future for us. Three months since it ended, haven't really talked much, and he actually ended up moving back home, which is in the next province over. I have had to reprimand myself many times since the break-up for talking about him too much, or for comparing others to him. I keep thinking that maybe if I could just find one guy who could make me feel the same way he did, I could get over him, and stop pretending I already have. Well getting over him would have been easier if Thursday night he hadn't phoned me. We talked for an hour. Basically he said he can't stop thinking about me, regrets what he did, feels bad for hurting me, and is willing to do whatever it takes to try again. This is the part where I am freaking out, and my stomach is still turning so hard I've felt sick since. I have no idea what to do. I've been talking to my friends about it. Either they tell me not to even think about it, because I will just get hurt again, and relationships never work out the second time around - people break up for a reason. Or else they say to try it again, because I will have the power, and if it doesn't work then I'll know for sure. So far, we are just text messaging a little more. I haven't given him a definite answer, because I don't have one. Obviously I'm contemplating it, or I would have said no immediately. Just not sure if I should... I would appreciate anyone's opinions, to help me think this through. ~CAL
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