Sean0775 Posted November 24, 2007 Posted November 24, 2007 I've been single for about 4 months now and am wanting to get back into dating, but I can't seem to stop being attracted to women that would either make me lose friends or get me fired. I still have the "on-again, off-again" attraction to a buddy's GF that I've had for years now, and the most recent attraction was to a woman I supervise at work who is married with kids. Did I mention this seems to be getting progressively worse? I have no intention of actually pursuing any of these women, as losing friends and getting fired is not what I want to do, but I'm thinking I seriously need some new hobbies or something that brings me in contact with single women I don't supervise. The smallness of this town makes that somewhat difficult, as I had to prove 2 of the last 3 girls I went out with were in the gray area which would allow me to date them (an associate's daughter and an associate's best friend). The fact that I never have a weekend off and work 3rd shift also complicates this process. I do have 3 days off in a row every week, but one of those days is spent in a coma and the other two are spent with friends. I could see devoting one of those two days to some sort of weekly activity that isn't going to bars or taking a dance class, but I lost touch with a lot of friends during my last relationship due to distance and don't want that happening again. One last thing, in case someone suggests transfering to a different town, I like 95% of the people I work with, so I have a lot of trouble justifying a move which might bring me into a group of people I hate.
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