ross37 Posted November 24, 2007 Posted November 24, 2007 Long story short, my gf and i have been dating for almost a year now, we are very close and are getting married. Right before we started dating, she liked this guy for about a year, he treated her like ****, took advantage of her, the only reason i know this is bc she told me drunk, so i know she doesnt remember telling me. Anyway this was back a year ago, and she hasnt had contact with him since, untill recently. Tonight i was looking on her myspace and a comment was left by him, so i look at his and she left the first comment. She called him a "douche potato" in her comment and he commented back "dork something" or something of that sort. Anyway, should i be worried about this? It sounds like flirting to me, maybe i'm wrong or just over reacting. They were friends before but i dont know. any thoughts?
quankanne Posted November 24, 2007 Posted November 24, 2007 I highly doubt calling douche potato is a form of flirtation, but rather a way of expressing anger toward a total anal pore for being the jackass he/she is. I wouldn't worry about it, just let her get that residual anger out of her system. Hell, offer to buy her a voodoo kit so she can REALLY work out that frustration. Because at some point, the hurt is going to fade enough to where she can write off that whole episode of dating him and seriously ask herself WTH she was thinking, thinking he was something special when she's got the real deal with you ...
Author ross37 Posted November 24, 2007 Author Posted November 24, 2007 i wish it was any residual anger, but i dont think it is. I think i'm gonna let it keep happening and see what he says to her
Star Gazer Posted November 24, 2007 Posted November 24, 2007 i wish it was any residual anger, but i dont think it is. I think i'm gonna let it keep happening and see what he says to her I think it's residual anger, but that's not good either. The opposite of passion and love isn't anger or hatred - it's indifference. To really be over him, she needs to feel true indifference towards him. That said, you can't "let it keep happening" any more than you can stop it from happening. You cannot control your GF. All you can do is talk with her about your concerns and see where it goes from there.
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