Author Gwyneth Posted November 25, 2007 Author Posted November 25, 2007 Hemorrhoid, boil, callous, hairy mole it's all pretty much an abnormal growth that should be removed as soon as possible. My sense of humor or lack there of, has nothing to do with healing. It has t do with life. You either laugh or cry. I work with special needs children and you learn to laugh a lot. And as far as moving on. I have moved on and set up residence in a new phase of my life. He moved out, I moved on and life is good. That's good. Well, you seem like a woman who has her sh*t together and tells it how it is...that's good. I am like that too...you get the honest truth from me. All women need to be like that!
torranceshipman Posted November 26, 2007 Posted November 26, 2007 Thanks Nadia! And Gwyneth, you don't need to pretend that you were joking, or whatever, as I am pretty sure I understood exactly what you were saying. You know what, if you say something, say it with conviction and don't backpedal - you'll need more strength of character than that to get yourself out of the difficult situation you're in now. I'm sure you can be a very strong person when you put your mind to it, but you sound like you sell yourself short a lot and you don't sound like you have a lot of self esteem. And I'm not flaming you, I'd just rather see you in a better, happier place than you are right now.
Author Gwyneth Posted November 26, 2007 Author Posted November 26, 2007 Thanks Nadia! And Gwyneth, you don't need to pretend that you were joking, or whatever, as I am pretty sure I understood exactly what you were saying. You know what, if you say something, say it with conviction and don't backpedal - you'll need more strength of character than that to get yourself out of the difficult situation you're in now. I have no idea what you are talking about.
LifesontheUp Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 That's good. Well, you seem like a woman who has her sh*t together and tells it how it is...that's good. I am like that too...you get the honest truth from me. All women need to be like that! Its a shame that you are not honest with yourself Gwyneth. You don't allow yourself to see whats in front of your eyes....the truth about this so called relationship you have with the MM. Whats obvious to many here you unfortunately are failing to see. I am not flaming you, just wish you would take off those rose tinted affair glasses and see the MM for what he really is.
Author Gwyneth Posted November 27, 2007 Author Posted November 27, 2007 I'm actually being real honest with myself. I don't have a real relationship with him nor am I convincing myself we do. I went into this knowing the deal-im one step ahead!
Ocean-Blue Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 I'm actually being real honest with myself. I don't have a real relationship with him nor am I convincing myself we do. I went into this knowing the deal-im one step ahead! You will be one step ahead when you have a man to call your own. Till then, you are deluding yourself into thinking that you are somehow "above" the deceit. He is taking you for a ride as much as he is his wife.
Author Gwyneth Posted November 27, 2007 Author Posted November 27, 2007 You will be one step ahead when you have a man to call your own. Till then, you are deluding yourself into thinking that you are somehow "above" the deceit. He is taking you for a ride as much as he is his wife. You're so very wrong. I know me, u dont-and I absolutely HATE when people try to tell me how it is. None of you live my life. Your opinions are based on asumptions and past experiences that have nothing to do with me or my situation. I'm not deluting myself, and I don't want this to turn into a 20 page thread of insults and debates. So, end of discussion on the fact that some of u think I'm deluted.thank you
Ocean-Blue Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 You're so very wrong. I know me, u dont-and I absolutely HATE when people try to tell me how it is. None of you live my life. Your opinions are based on asumptions and past experiences that have nothing to do with me or my situation. I'm not deluting myself, and I don't want this to turn into a 20 page thread of insults and debates. So, end of discussion on the fact that some of u think I'm deluted.thank you You are right, I don't know you. I'm sorry if you thought I was attacking you...perhaps what I said got under your skin a little? It doesn't take a genius to figure out that by virtue of being an OW, you are a fool. How, you ask? Because you are so engrossed in this affair and the specific details of it that you cannot be objective. Your posts suggest that you are struggling with trusting him. The man has left an impression on you - this relationship consumes you to the point of delusion. And since we're being catty, may I point out that it's DELUDING and DELUDED.
Author Gwyneth Posted November 27, 2007 Author Posted November 27, 2007 You are right, I don't know you. I'm sorry if you thought I was attacking you...perhaps what I said got under your skin a little? It doesn't take a genius to figure out that by virtue of being an OW, you are a fool. How, you ask? Because you are so engrossed in this affair and the specific details of it that you cannot be objective. Your posts suggest that you are struggling with trusting him. The man has left an impression on you - this relationship consumes you to the point of delusion. And since we're being catty, may I point out that it's DELUDING and DELUDED. I'm on my blackberry-that was a typo. I'm ignoring you because you are annoying me. BYE!!! Leave me alone. Your words are rubbish to me.
Ocean-Blue Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 I'm on my blackberry-that was a typo. I'm ignoring you because you are annoying me. BYE!!! Leave me alone. Your words are rubbish to me. Ewwww, how did I get embroiled in some kind of a posting spat? I have better things to do than teach you to sing. I'll let you figure that proverb out on your own. See you.
noforgiveness Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 LOL, you crack me up! I was laughing with you, not at you--I'm sorry, I just find your sense of humor very funny. I wasn't trying to be mean about it (as I think torranceshipman might have thought). Your choice of words to describe the cheater=funny to me. I thought maybe you could be bitter because you were once hurt? I am a bit bitter toward men--my supervisor calls me Used Goods because I always put men down. I know, I'm tacky. Gyyneth have more respect for yourself in life and ON THE JOB. Why would you allow your supervisor to call you used goods? Do you know wht an insult this is? Honestly, he doesn't call you that because you put men down. Think about it. Used goods is because you persoanlly are considered used goods because you have been through so many men. This may not be at all true about you but allowing him to call you that? oh no. No no no. A supervisor should NEVER call you derrogatory names.
NoIDidn't Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 Gyyneth have more respect for yourself in life and ON THE JOB. Why would you allow your supervisor to call you used goods? Do you know wht an insult this is? Honestly, he doesn't call you that because you put men down. Think about it. Used goods is because you persoanlly are considered used goods because you have been through so many men. This may not be at all true about you but allowing him to call you that? oh no. No no no. A supervisor should NEVER call you derrogatory names. ITA! Is it possible that said supervisor and MM also know each other on the job. Used goods. Wow. How insulting. And it probably encompasses far more than the male bashing. It generally means that people think you have far too many issues to be taken seriously on any level. Doesn't sound like that supervisor respects Gwenyth much.
torranceshipman Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 Used goods? Woah!! And one of your BOSSES said this?? That is so disrespectful...he's insinuating that you are worthless. You should complain. You really shouldn't let people treat you like crap. Mind you, if you have the attitude in life that you have on this board, I'm not surprised people don't exactly take to you.
Author Gwyneth Posted November 27, 2007 Author Posted November 27, 2007 Gyyneth have more respect for yourself in life and ON THE JOB. Why would you allow your supervisor to call you used goods? Do you know wht an insult this is? Honestly, he doesn't call you that because you put men down. Think about it. Used goods is because you persoanlly are considered used goods because you have been through so many men. This may not be at all true about you but allowing him to call you that? oh no. No no no. A supervisor should NEVER call you derrogatory names. Oh no no no no no...he used to joke around to me and this other lady and call us that when we would make fun of him. We didn't take it personal at all-he knows nothing abt us. Thanks though but yeah, it was harmless. We call hin worse LOL!!! We are very close myself and the coworkers-we can say things like that to each other and know its harmless.
Lyssa Posted November 28, 2007 Posted November 28, 2007 Oh no no no no no...he used to joke around to me and this other lady and call us that when we would make fun of him. We didn't take it personal at all-he knows nothing abt us. Thanks though but yeah, it was harmless. We call hin worse LOL!!! We are very close myself and the coworkers-we can say things like that to each other and know its harmless. Gwyneth, your other thread has been deleted? I came on for a bit last night to read what's new. Wanted to comment but didn't have time, thought I'd do just now but it's gone!
Author Gwyneth Posted November 28, 2007 Author Posted November 28, 2007 Yeah, well I thought it would be best if it went bye bye since some people cannot control their hormones around here
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