Lucky555 Posted November 23, 2007 Posted November 23, 2007 I have been hanging out with this guy only on social occassions and i have posted before about him. I have come to the conclusion that it appears to be friends with benefits for him. However, I know that he does like me and i do like him but he has not asked me out on a date or anything. I feel like i am getting closer emotionally to him because we have a great time together. However, i can't help to think that i am only being used here. I feel bad because I know that i have to pursue other guys but he is always in the back of my mind. I am wondering if I should stop getting so close to him and treat him more like a friend. Platonic friendship. however he does make advances towards me such as touching and flirting. I don't want him to feel rejected and i don't want to lose him as a friend either. he does not talk to me and i have not initiated contact He does keep tabs on me through other people ( i dont get this) does not talk on a daily basis or weekly one at that. So i guess i can't really call him a friend either, since he doesn't seem to care. I think he doesn't want to commit and just wants fun but like i said i don't want his fun to be at my expense. How do i have him stop acting like i am with him and flirting and touching, i don't want to get hurt because it seems like this is where its going to end up
torranceshipman Posted November 23, 2007 Posted November 23, 2007 I think you can do 1 of 2 things: 1 - ask him face to face - straight out - what his intentions are, then you'll be more informed 2 - make yourself unavailable to him and move on...if he misses you, he'll get in touch and do what needs to be done to get you back!
Author Lucky555 Posted November 23, 2007 Author Posted November 23, 2007 Ok so i think if i ask him face to face it would be a bit much even though we have kissed, hung out, enjoyed our time together. He knows that i am waiting for him to say something to do something but he just won't and honestly i don't know why which makes me suspicious and it also makes me not trust him. So i will go with number two..Does this mean i should lose all contact as in block him from online contact (like my screen name) even though he does not contact me. i have been thinking maybe i should do this. but not sure.
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