4everloveu Posted November 23, 2007 Posted November 23, 2007 I know a friend that had an affair with this mw for more than 10yrs. He been waitting for her to divorce and still waitting. Mw husband didn't know anything about their affair. I have told him to move on because he just going to waste his time on her.
whichwayisup Posted November 23, 2007 Posted November 23, 2007 10 years, no divorce and he's still the OM? Well, he can wait another 10 years and waste his life away waiting for her to divorce...IT AIN'T gonna happen. He needs to end it and find a woman who will love him, start a family, share a life with him, not someone else's wife. I hope you kick some sense into your friend. Maybe point him to LS so he can read the threads. This MW of his IS selfish and has no intention of divorcing, she's loving the attention of another man, getting her needs filled by him, and she gets to have her husband too, the house, kids if there are any, her lifestyle, friends, family....
Tripper Posted November 23, 2007 Posted November 23, 2007 Looking at it from a different perspective, maybe the guy doesn't want marriage and kids. He may be quite comfortable in the relationship just the way it is. He also gets the best of both worlds. Just a thought..
Author 4everloveu Posted November 23, 2007 Author Posted November 23, 2007 He love her very much and just hope one day she will divorce. But I don't think she will since it been that long. It's tought for him to forget her and move on. He is too afraid to commit to any relationship at this point.
Woggle Posted November 23, 2007 Posted November 23, 2007 He will continue chasing her until she either stays with her husband or divorces him but claims she wants to be single for a while then he will mope around depressed for a few years crying over. After this is done he will end up hating women and become a whiny loser that no woman worth having will want when he should have never trusted a woman who would cheat on her husband in the first place. That is how it will most likely end.
Author 4everloveu Posted November 24, 2007 Author Posted November 24, 2007 What is the percentage she will divorce her husband and be with him?
Darth Vader Posted November 24, 2007 Posted November 24, 2007 Um, no one else has mentioned it, but why not inform her husband about what she's doing, you know, a call from a payphone, you need not give your name and number! Her husband has every right to move on with his life! And PLEASE don't think you're interfering with their marriage! After all OM IS interfering, by sleeping with another man's wife! Hubby'll make the decision quick!
Author 4everloveu Posted November 24, 2007 Author Posted November 24, 2007 He told me that he decided to close the chapter. But she still contact him. I just hope he realized what he did is wrong and that what I'm telling him. I was just hope she truely love him. I care for him and worry he will get in trouble one of this day. He will hurt very bad if the mw husband find out.
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