Sureshot Posted November 23, 2007 Posted November 23, 2007 Hello all, Ive been with my current gf for a few months now, me and her are both 20, I think she is amazing, and me and her seem to have a good time together, but my problem is, sometimes, I still feel shy around her, and I think it effects our ability to deepen our relationship. I think one problem that doesnt help is that we dont see eachother very often, about 1 to 2 times a week, for a few hours, but she is really busy between work and school. Im not sure, but I think if we saw eachother a little more that might help. Also, we are both kinda new to being in a relationship and have lack experience there. When we go out and do things together we have alot of fun together and can get right into things, but if we are at eachother's houses, we seem a little quiet and shy. We cant figure out what to really do, so we just watch TV or play video games. Sometimes we make out a bit (not enough in my opinion ) and we can have little conversations about how we feel about eachother when we are making out. My question is, is this normal in a fairly new relationship (2 months), and what can I do to improve, What kind of things can I just do spontaneously or what not, just to really bring the moment to life, and make our relationship more interesting. To be really specific, what are some romantic or fun things that I can do that will put a smile on her face, make her laugh, and she will be thinking about before she falls asleep at night, just spur of the moment things, Thank you all in advance for replies.
LosingMyDreamGirl Posted November 23, 2007 Posted November 23, 2007 If you guys tell each other that you love each other, I will let you use a poem I wrote for my ex-wife a long time ago... make sure you write it down with a pen, though. My wife loved for me to draw her pictures and write poems for her, so I did that a lot. Cheap (and easy for me), so was something I could do a lot. Anyways, here is the poem: I wish i could tell you Let you know what i think Or i could write it down Very carefully in ink Every time that you read this You will always feel better On this very poem Underline each line's first letter I have done a lot of other things too.... leaving flowers on her door step in the middle of the night. Drawing pictures for her in her shower with those erasable shower crayon thingies.... Shoot man, you want some romantic advice, send me a PM... heh
Author Sureshot Posted November 24, 2007 Author Posted November 24, 2007 Hey, thanks losingmydreamgirl, I like your poem, not just saying that either, i think it is pretty clever:cool:, but we have only been together a few months so we havnt said the "L" word yet. I like you ideas though, but i am a terrible at drawing:( Does anybody else have any thoughts? would be much appreciated!
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