luther Posted November 23, 2007 Posted November 23, 2007 to do anything. She wanted no contact 3 weeks ago to " think things through" I broke it twice. Last Saturday was the last time I seen her, so its been 6 days. I know what people are saying here about moving on with my life, go out have a good time blah blah blah, but I cant. I dont feel like doing anything and just want to be left alone. But I cant sit here all day either its killing me every thought I have is about her. I just dont know what to do and what makes it worse is that its a 4 day weekend. Someone please help me:(
SYRACUSE03 Posted November 23, 2007 Posted November 23, 2007 Luther...sorry to hear that you are going through a rough time. I'm still going through mine. I'm not going to tell you to move on because every situation is different. You have to stay busy or you will drive yourself nuts. I still think about my ex g/f everyday and some days are worse than others. It just happens in waves. Don't hold it in. Get upset, get angry...release it. Remember, the attitude you portray sends negativity all over the place. It's OK to think, be sad, have some alone time, etc. If you do this too much, you'll get exhausted. I'm not a philosopher but if you think negative, things will be negative. You must think positive because your interaction with her will show you coming off as annoying which will push her further away. Work out, stay active. It's not a cure but it helps. Here's an example...say that another few weeks goes by and your partner contacts you. You meet up and she sees a negative, drawn person who didn't take care of himself. Why in the world would she want to see you again? You MUST utilize this time to better yourself. Once you start with you, then you can worry about her. I know it's tough, most of us have been in your spot. Remember...someone always has it worse off than you. Take a moment to be thankful for everything in your life. I'm not trying to downplay your issue but I'll take me for example. My ex walked out and said, "I love you but I'm not in love with you" 3 months ago. It sucks...it still sucks. But there are people on here that lost a husband, wife or had a spouse that cheat on them. Sometimes I read a post and thought that I have it bad. Read some posts, get some insight. Take a breath and force yourself to get motivated...it's the only shot you have. Good luck!
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