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My ex and I had been together 5 years, broke up a few times, but mostly good. She is 27, i'm 39. She loved me deeply, and I wasn't ready to commit and she became impatient...she took a break for 3 mos. in '05, dated some guy, and ended up coming back to me...we were doing well until she started getting antsy about things...anyway, we broke up in june, and she really stopped all contact w/ me...which is HUGELY unlike her..i tried to meet up with her, but she was always busy..i broke it off, so i understand she was hurt...anyhow, it's now november, and i went by her work to surprise her and say "hi"...she was happy to see me, we talked for ahwile (she was on her way to a concert) and when i asked if she was involved, she said yes, with the guy from 2 years ago....so i think it may be a rebound...anyhow, i told her i was seeing someone, and she was shocked, but kept cool...anyway, she told me she is going to be working at the building right next door to mine next week...which means

we will see each other perhaps quite a bit...she told me there was no one like me, and before we parted, she reached out to fix my hair....anyway,

i KNOW she still has feelings, but, is it too late to try again for her? i asked if it was serious w/ the guy, and she said, "i don't know, maybe" and held her hand out like "look, no rings".....i still love her, and miss her...and she even said our relationship was fun.....prior to this, we hadn't

been in any contact, now, she is going to be going into her office 6 feet from where i go into mine....should i play cool, should i just forget it? or is there a chance somehow?? what do i do?? a girl i know said there is mr. right, and mr. right now.....help any advice.....i know what i want now,,,it's her...i want to marry her....

 

thank you for your kind response....

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I think you will have to grab the bull by the horns and just go and tell her how you feel.

She may want the same thing,she may not,but if you don't go and find out it will fester away in your mind and slowly drive you insane.

Organise to meet up with her and lay your cards on the table.Tell her what you've told us here.It's not a time for pride but more a time to spill out your heart and hope that she wants what she hears.

If she doesn't,then at least you can find closure and move on.

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I agree with Bustertypsy. And she may not be willing to reveal these feelings first (IF she returns them), considering you broke it off.

 

Go for it, tell her how you feel. If you don't, you will never know.

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How does your current gf feel about this?

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Love works in mysterious ways ' if its ment to be, it will be'

Just take your time with this... as in both sides there has been allot of confusion and heartache'

 

But i hope all goes well

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