thewholeshabangg Posted November 23, 2007 Posted November 23, 2007 i don't understand how everything could be working out great for a number of months (more specifically 5).. taking things slow, getting to know each other, both explaining feelings for each other.. then all of a sudden... nothing. (except for a few, pointless texts.. very random and sparatic) the last conversation we had with each other was good. then after not hearing from him after i called him the next day, i called him and then heard nothing back for another week and a half. what goes through somones head when that happens.. like is he not thinking of me? how can he go to bed at night, or live throughout his day and not think of calling me, or texting me, or think to think of me? doesn't he know he hurt me? and whyyy? and what makes it harder is that he is a very confident, strong man, that could very easily (through his personality) tell me he no longer wants to talk to me, will not. real question is.. if it isn't working out for you, why do you not just TELL the person that it isn't.. instead of having them figure it out for themselves?? it'd be easier.
honey001 Posted November 24, 2007 Posted November 24, 2007 He is being straight up selfish!!!! This really sux when a guy does this... They dont understand what a woman goes through... Honey move on theres someone better for you out there, and i sympothise and understand what your going through as i went through the same exact thing... i know its hard to do, but go out dating other guys, you will see things will be so much easier for yourself.
Author thewholeshabangg Posted November 25, 2007 Author Posted November 25, 2007 and it sooo hard! i can't help but thinking of the little things.. and sometimes, i feel like if i had that final 'goodbye' things would be better.. like tell me that you are done and that you hate my guts and that every time you think of me you want to throw up.. or something! and i had the latter and it made me hate him so much, that it was so easy to stop and drop my feelings for him. but hearing nothing is so difficult. i don't wish this feeling on the worst enemy.
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