decentguy1 Posted November 22, 2007 Posted November 22, 2007 My ex and I had been together 5 years, broke up a few times, but mostly good. She is 27, i'm 39. She loved me deeply, and I wasn't ready to commit and she became impatient...she took a break for 3 mos. in '05, dated some guy, and ended up coming back to me...we were doing well until she started getting antsy about things...anyway, we broke up in june, and she really stopped all contact w/ me...which is HUGELY unlike her..i tried to meet up with her, but she was always busy..i broke it off, so i understand she was hurt...anyhow, it's now november, and i went by her work to surprise her and say "hi"...she was happy to see me, we talked for ahwile (she was on her way to a concert) and when i asked if she was involved, she said yes, with the guy from 2 years ago....so i think it may be a rebound...anyhow, i told her i was seeing someone, and she was shocked, but kept cool...anyway, she told me she is going to be working at the building right next door to mine next week...which means we will see each other perhaps quite a bit...she told me there was no one like me, and before we parted, she reached out to fix my hair....anyway, i KNOW she still has feelings, but, is it too late to try again for her? i asked if it was serious w/ the guy, and she said, "i don't know, maybe" and held her hand out like "look, no rings".....i still love her, and miss her...and she even said our relationship was fun.....prior to this, we hadn't been in any contact, now, she is going to be going into her office 6 feet from where i go into mine....should i play cool, should i just forget it? or is there a chance somehow?? what do i do?? a girl i know said there is mr. right, and mr. right now.....help any advice.....i know what i want now,,,it's her...i want to marry her.... thank you for your kind response....
Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted November 26, 2007 Posted November 26, 2007 give it time since shes going to e seeing you often now she might start seeig you as before...dont push it dont force her to anything only tell her how you feel when she asks or if you think its right and wont sound like your pressed over her...if you guys are meant to be, you guys will en up toguether...give her her space...
melodymatters Posted November 26, 2007 Posted November 26, 2007 Well, it sounds like you have had a change of heart. I'm not saying you should rush over with a ring, but it sounds like: she loved you you wouldn't committ she left to find someone who could you have realized what you lost If you want her back for REAL ( you are not just playing around and wanting what you can't have) Then I think at some point, relatively soon, you should lay it out for her. Then date again for awhile with the understanding that if all goes well, you WILL be proposing at a certain point. Good luck !
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