Sunblast Posted November 22, 2007 Posted November 22, 2007 I had spent a lot of time and effort trying to see if this is me; if I am subconsciously sabotaging this and causing this to happen. But a good deal of evidence shows that it isn't so; that it's from outside. Average, even pretty girls are usually very receptive but add another point on a ten-point scale and even if they talk they're uninvolved, aloof, bored, and quickly leave - or are rude - or something else. I went to see if I talk differently to the two kinds, and I don't think I do. But this is ridiculous. They aren't ALL THAT, either kind. But there's this humongous difference? I reasoned that I must be causing it because it isn't geniuses who are f-cking these attractive girls, but I dunno what it is that they react so much cooler. Ideas?
CD111 Posted November 22, 2007 Posted November 22, 2007 Ok, to comment I need more info. What is this in relation to?
carrotgirl Posted November 22, 2007 Posted November 22, 2007 I reasoned that I must be causing it because it isn't geniuses who are f-cking these attractive girls, but I dunno what it is that they react so much cooler. Ideas? Add a point to pretty? What's that? Like attractive enough that people stop and stare when she walks into a room? Or attractive enough that once she's been in the shower and all the liquid mystique has washed off she's still attractive? I think the problem you're experiencing probably has more to do with how your project yourself than you think. You sound annoyed and frustrated by the add a point girls who aren't interested in you. You probably convey this annoyance and some aloofness of your own that you're unaware of, but is being picked up on. I'll be straight with you. The most attractive things I notice when meeting a guy for the first few times are, 1. He's interested in getting to know me without being pushy. 2. He seems to be having a good time with me. 3. He looks happy to see me. And yah, a guy does have to be a genius to f*ck me. Carrot
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