neveragain2493 Posted November 22, 2007 Posted November 22, 2007 there is a guy that i like. we talk everynight, and flirt often so one night we started talking, and i told him i liked someone, and asked who he liked. he said 'i really don't like anyone, because i don't know who likes me. if someone liked me, i would want them to tell me. i really think you should tell this guy you like him.' so a couple of nights later, i asked him if he liked me. he said 'i thought about that, but if we broke up, i would lose you, and it wouldn't be worth it for me to lose you as one of my best friends. i think we should hang out first, and see where it goes from there.' so we hung out, and had a great time. the next day, he said 'i really think we should stay friends. friends are forever, but girlfriends aren't.' right now he just got a new girlfriend. and yet it's strange, because we still flirt like crazy and i know girls and guys who are 'best friends' don't flirt like that. i asked a guy for advice, and he told me 'i once told a girl we should stay friends, but when i realized i liked her as a girlfriend, she was gone.' are we friends or something more? i've already started talking to other guys, but it's just not the same. what's going on? i DO notice that he gets jealous when i take awhile to respond to him, and says 'you must be talking to a lot of different people'. please help, i'm sooo confused.
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