FRIENDS2UALL Posted November 22, 2007 Posted November 22, 2007 :confused:Hi, I'm so confused about a friendship that I have with another female friend of mines, I'm 40 she is 60,married which is the only difference with us we both have been thru a lot of hurt and mistrust that has a lot of conflict. The problem is I have and from some things she does sometimes have interest in her but she is very important to me as a friend and not until I was 40 did I start having fantasies about being with another woman and I will not take a chance now losing what I think is a friendship. The thing is she very hard to deal with, she is the type of person where it is don't do as I do, do as I say. She has shown me her breast on occassion,her stomach, told me how soft her husband thinks she is, sometimes she has rub up against me, felt my buttocks, bumped up against me in my midsection, sometimes she has gotten annoyed with me because I would go talk to my other friends, has always asked me how her clothes and jewelry look, making sure I liked them. I need help on what to do about this, we work together too.
whichwayisup Posted November 23, 2007 Posted November 23, 2007 She's acting totally inappropriately with the rubbing up against you, flirting and stuff BECAUSE she is married. If she was doing this to a man, it would be wrong as well. She is crossing lines and it's not fair to her husband. Think of him..I know you find her attractive and want to sleep with her, but she is married!! If she was single and available I would tell you to talk to her and go for it, but unfortunately the ring on her finger means she's not yours for taking. If you can't handle this, being near her, back off and keep it as professional as possible. Distance yourself emotionally and don't talk to her outside of work.
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