steveywonder Posted November 21, 2007 Posted November 21, 2007 Story is: - Started a job 3 months ago fresh out of university - Met this pretty girl who works in human resources - She's quite flirtatious with a lot of people - She has a f-buddy at her hometown but doesn't care much for him - So far me and her have become very friendly and we often get very close on nights out - cuddling, holding hands - but no more - I'm starting to like her more than just a friend - Not sure if she knows how I feel So what do I do? I know the whole 'don't dip your pen in company ink' thing but I'm just plane confused! I think I've fallen for her!
FRIENDS2UALL Posted November 22, 2007 Posted November 22, 2007 Story is: - Started a job 3 months ago fresh out of university - Met this pretty girl who works in human resources - She's quite flirtatious with a lot of people - She has a f-buddy at her hometown but doesn't care much for him - So far me and her have become very friendly and we often get very close on nights out - cuddling, holding hands - but no more - I'm starting to like her more than just a friend - Not sure if she knows how I feel So what do I do? I know the whole 'don't dip your pen in company ink' thing but I'm just plane confused! I think I've fallen for her! have you tried telling her how you feel, maybe she feels the same way or it would be best foryou two to talk and settle things to a point you both know where each other is coming from and your friendship stays in place without harm. I'm almost in the same situation, i'm single, have not had relations with a man in 8yrs. and now after 40 i'm having fantasies about sleeping with a woman who i work with closely whose 60 and married, she's been flirting and i have in my own way too but you are more open to maybe being with her but your friendship is important so try talking to and not at with her, never know!! one way or the other you have to know.
Author steveywonder Posted November 22, 2007 Author Posted November 22, 2007 i really appreciate the advice, thx! it's just so easy to bury your feelings with the fear of rejection, and sometimes things are easier said than done. She's currently away for a week but I'm sure we'll still be in contact by phone... but I don't think it's best to admit my feelings in that way...advice?
FRIENDS2UALL Posted November 23, 2007 Posted November 23, 2007 then if you don't plan on telling her then try yourself to control your feelings, it's not easy but remember the friendship you have with her is more important then having more, if she does not make a move then don't try anything when and if she tries something with you, then tell her, we need to talk about things to make sure especially about working together things are clear on how to deal with it.
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