EYECANDY000 Posted November 21, 2007 Posted November 21, 2007 Now, if anyone has been following my threads I am currently in a new relationship and it seems like it is more than I can chew. We dated a few months and decided to be exclusive shortly after that. Now the thing is that he likes someone who is a little dominant towards him. I dont mean like whips and chains but someone who can take control of the situation. That part I dont mind only because I am tad bit dominant and like to feel like im in control every once in a while. But I guess the thing is, Its totally just changing my personality.. I feel like I have to constanly be forced to tell him what to do. Hes not like the gullible type but just likes someone to be in charge . Things doesnt seem to bad right? hold that thought Next scenerio, some how and someway he always turns things to be my fault. I absolutly dont understand it. We argue but its never about trust issues, cheating, lying, all night partying. Thats a good thing!.. But its always about really small petty things. and it would be his fault 100%.. and some how he would turn it arounf on me and Im the one who is kissing is A$$ and apologizing. Still not so bad? this guy totally controls our conversations ! When zi call him he never picks up, but will call back within reasonable time with an legitimate excuse. If he is mad at me and we text each other over the phone and he sense the fact that I am still upset , he would just say sorry and Of course i forgive him, because the stuff we argue over is petty. But he totally blows things out of poportion and wont pick up the phone and would answer my text messages with short answers. Like no, ok, naw, ill think about calling you tonight. Words like that would defiantely hurt anyones heart. Bad so far? Y am I still with him you ask? really do like this guy and this is the only guy who i have had strong feelings for. I have known how it feels to be so happy when someone calls you. I have never felt the hurt when you make your partner upset with you. I see a future with him and I keep telling myself that the relationship is still new and we are still getting to know each other. I know that he likes me but its just a little hard to read him at times. i havent asked any questions but what do you guys think just from reading this. Whats your opinion on everything. Thanks in advance to everyone who responds and have a happy gobble gobble day!!!
Lovegod Posted November 21, 2007 Posted November 21, 2007 this is the only guy who i have had strong feelings for. I can definately see why
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