soconfused2007 Posted November 20, 2007 Posted November 20, 2007 Hi, So I met what seemed to be a great girl at a bar/club this weekend...we exchanged glances a few times early in the night and then she found me on the dance floor and we danced and talked until closing. She gave me her number and said to call her...I texted her that night saying I had fun and it was nice to meet her. She texted back saying "goodnight" So I've been pretty busy preparing for the holiday so I sent a quick text last night to tell her I hadn't forgotten about her but just have been busy. I haven't received a response... Do you think it's still worth it to call? Or should I take it as a no-interest? I guess I am confused...but what else is new...
MatsumeKazuo Posted November 20, 2007 Posted November 20, 2007 Well, if you texted her that it was nice to meet her and her response was, "good night," I don't know it that's a sign that she's interested. You texted her, and if she doesn't text back then I don't see a reason to go any further...
compassion42 Posted November 20, 2007 Posted November 20, 2007 Give her a call-what have you got to lose? At least with a call you'll know for sure she got the message-texts can be so uncertain.
Blue Eyed Brain Posted November 20, 2007 Posted November 20, 2007 I think you waited too long to send her another text or to call her. She's probably moved on and so should you.
thewholeshabangg Posted November 20, 2007 Posted November 20, 2007 call her. i agree with compassion up there, what do you have to lose? and text are soooooo, soo.. not calling. if she asked you to call, call her up. if i was her i would kinda be disappointed if you texted me and not called.. so id be excited to get a call from you.
Author soconfused2007 Posted November 21, 2007 Author Posted November 21, 2007 Thanks for the insight everyone, very helpful. @ blue eyed - too long? less than 48 hours is too long? yikes! I really have no idea what I'm doing... @ MatsumeKazuo - yeah I was kind of confused by that as well...I mean in my experience if a girl approaches me in a bar or club she is usually interested...so I didn't get it. I guess "Thanx! Goodnight." is better than nothing though? @ thewholeshabangg - I don't know what I have to lose, guess it's the same for everyone...fear of rejection...sigh... I really don't know why this has to be so complicated...I haven't been single for so long I guess I just need some more time to get use to how things are done. Also I don't really know why I care so much...there are a million women out there...I guess I sort of felt a connection with this one...which is unusual for bars/clubs in my experience.
thewholeshabangg Posted November 21, 2007 Posted November 21, 2007 well i think it is better to be rejected then the whole 'you never know' because you don't know. go for it.
Author soconfused2007 Posted November 22, 2007 Author Posted November 22, 2007 Well I did it! Took a lot of convincing...but I did it...whew... Of course I just got her voicemail but at least I tried and I feel pretty good about it. So now I guess I just leave it up to her? Thanks again for the help everyone.
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