starlite Posted November 20, 2007 Posted November 20, 2007 Ok...I met my ex through my brother. We ended up together for 2.5 years (some of you know this). When we got together he told me he didnt want their friendship jeopordized because of the relationship and we of course agreed. Well, I found out a week ago that my ex (we broke up 5 weeks ago) cheated on me repeatedly. I already knew he was a liar and a major manipulator...but not a cheater! My brother is still friends with him. As far as I know he never even yelled at him for it. When we initially broke up, i told my brother I just didnt want to hear about my ex and when they hang out, but in light of this knew info I am starting to feel a major resentment towards him (my brother) for not sticking up for me. I didnt do anything wrong. I told my [COLOR=black][FONT=Arial Black]other[/FONT][/COLOR] brother about it, him and my ex are kinda friends and I told him how much it hurt that they arent sticking up for me. I plan on telling my other brother I am done with him for a while too because I am really hurt. Now...am I doing the right thing??? It might get back to my ex that I am reacting this way and I have done really good at not contacting him... Also, I find it infuriating that my ex emailed my brothers to make sure that after cheating on me and treating me so badly, he wants to make sure they are all still cool....AND THEY ARE! But did I receieve as much as a text, email or phone call to apologise...NO!!!! So *** stressful. So, did I do the right thing...or should i have left it?
Author starlite Posted November 20, 2007 Author Posted November 20, 2007 Also, just to add...my ex is now dating a girl who was a friend on mine and she is also his best friends ex (not friends anymore obviously). Well...she is now all over my brothers ******* page inviting him out to see my ex's band with her...like what a way to rub it in my face! My brother should have deleted it and called her up and be like "Yeah, my sister see's this and maybe you could wait a while before plastering stuff all over for her to see." But no!
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