GreenEyedLady Posted November 20, 2007 Posted November 20, 2007 Look, he's trying to cover his tracks...Move on...I know it's hard but you're going to get yourself all worked up and possibly do something that you'll regret...Forget about him, he's not worth it... (((HUGS)))
hollaxatholly Posted November 21, 2007 Posted November 21, 2007 I cant take this anymore. I am living a facade. I am out and about all the time. I was out at dinner last week, at a party on Sat. I'm almost beating men off me with a stick. But I cant get over what he has done to me. I cant read those words which way without crying even more. I want to scream at you "HOW DO YOU KNOW" "YOU DONT KNOW HE WONT COME BACK". THis must be somehting like what a BS goes through - the betrayal, the lies, the hurt, at least they get to stay with their WS and shout at them. At least the WS stays and begs forgiveness says they love them says the affiar was a mistake. Is that what I am?? Some sort of horrible mistake?? I have literally been binned like the grottiest piece of sh*t there ever was. I cant bear it. I LOVED THAT MAN. boy...I feel like I could of written this exact same thing... :\
Lishy Posted November 21, 2007 Posted November 21, 2007 Hey change how you look at this, he has actually done you a favour you know! You will stop obssesive looking at his profile, and you wont get that giddy feeling just knowing that he was online at that particular time. You wont be able to do that anymore and that will help you get over him! We have all had your thoughts at some time in our lives and its horrible and nasty, but it wont last forever. One day you will meet a guy who you can call yours, a guy who could ask you to marry him and actually do it! A guy who you will trust and will love you and not share his love and lies between 2 women. You deserve more and you will get more! Get over this jerk honey and you will find true happiness, something that you would never have had with him! xx
frannie Posted November 23, 2007 Posted November 23, 2007 I know I know - I just feel like such an ass for texting him when I got so cross after he changed accessiblity to his profile. I contacted him once after 3 weeks. Then got drunk after another 2 and texted that I missed him, that was over a week ago. I HAVE left him alone. Don't fret about it. It took me 9 months and I was still obsessing about my ex who had done similar things to me. So... you know, you're still in the beginning stages of all the madness. Hmm not sure that helps much I'd say, look... you're not going to get over this in ten minutes flat. Anyone expecting you to (including you) has unreal expectations. It's going to take absolutely ages, but so what..? You're going to come out of this, believe me, a whole lot stronger. Don't feel stupid, don't feel in the wrong, don't worry about people telling you to 'just move on'... because they're not in your head, and you cannot do the impossible. Anyone who has been where you are, and through what you've been through, will know that. You're doing what comes naturally. And, for that matter, so is he. So... you know, you both have to do what you have to do... til it's really, really over. Take care, and don't worry x
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