Sw3etdev1L Posted November 20, 2007 Posted November 20, 2007 I am trying to figure out why the hell my ex boyfriend didn't really got in love with me iiiif. well, I am 22 about to be 23. I've been a model, I go to one of the best colleges of my country, I am studying a good career involving medicine, I do exercise, I take care of my body, I am not materialistic, I drink wine and alcohol moderately, I don't smoke. I believe i am intelligent I meaan..I get along with my sister and my parents and I have a good heart....he used to drink a lot of alcohol, he works with his father and didn't treat me nice. He didn't appreciate the details I gave him or didn't even appreciate the fact I lost my virginity with him...He is 29 I mean. I just don't get how a man that age and the way he was, I mean he was a bit fat and I don't really mind but...I really thought he was kind and stuff I am just so disappointed and cannot believe how he could let me go. You know?? have you ever felt this way?? because in my mind it is quite impressive..how can you let a girl this way just leave...and treat her bad..it is just stupid. I mean I am so lucky he left my life. But I cannot believe he took me for granted, and I cannot believe I gave so much of my heart for him when he did not deserve it.
Dmeech Posted November 20, 2007 Posted November 20, 2007 really cute girls tend to attract the "bad" boys... guys who wont respect them in the long run. Go for the queit ones, those who will say, "WOW i've landed myself such a beautifull, wonderfull woman" It's hard because your beautifull only the cocky/bad asses will be brave enough to approach you so you may need to go out of your way and approach a normal guy.
nycndatriad Posted November 20, 2007 Posted November 20, 2007 You sound like a wonderful young lady with alot to offer someone who deserves what you have to give and will lovingly give in return. This sounds like it has nothing to do with you your great, but you picked someone who is not and was not great for you. This guy drinks I don't know what issues he has going on but excessive drinking means that he is not taking good care of himself so don't expect someone like him to be able to love and take care of your needs in a relationship when he can't even meet his own needs. I hope that next time you fall for someone that he is deserving of your love and your heart.
starlite Posted November 20, 2007 Posted November 20, 2007 It does sound like he wasnt a very good guy. It sounds like he just didnt find you to be his match. You werent compatible enough, or you just didnt mesh well. There could be one reason, or 100. Move on and find someone who wants to be with you.
Jmina Posted November 20, 2007 Posted November 20, 2007 he treated you this way because you let him. or you taught him to treat you that way. doesnt take the hurt away, or anger - but might take some of the confusion away. he doesnt deserve you anyway and you probably learnt a bit for your next relationship. dont float up to the clouds thinking you are perfect though, one day you wont be able to live up to your own expectations and self distruct!!!!! jmina xx
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