CJ77 Posted November 20, 2007 Posted November 20, 2007 It will be six months at the end of this month since my boyfriend of 5 mnths decided to dump me...we were awesome together..we connected and fell for eachother quickly..it was one of those where the first time his eyes landed on me and the first time mine landed on him, sparks were flying everywhere...before i even found out he liked me I just knew deep down he liked me...he had told me he fell in love with me and told me i was the best, but towards the end of our relationship his time for me seemed to get less as he took on more wrk hours, and put all his extra cirriculars before me...he used to tell me the thought of us breaking up scared him...well a few weeks later what does he do but dump me....after i found out after he hadnt seen me that he had gone out with two girls and a guy....so i called him out on it and he said that he thinks it best that we break up bc he just doesnt have the time and that i can thank the guy who ratted him out for ruining our relationship....makes no sense!...his mom also told me that we would still be together probably if it wasnt for that guy at our work who filled me on my ex's wherabouts after he hadnt seen me ina week and a half bc she said her son couldnt take the stress of ppl getting in his business at work, she also said he always spoke very highly of me... so my ex has kept in contact with me the whole six mnths...sometimes he messages me every night...so last mnth i told him iif hes ever bored to call me and we'll hang out bc ive accepted he doesnt like me anymore and that i would be able to handle that...well he decided to go ahead and tell me how ive never been forgotten and that sometimes he thinks what was he thinking to lose me and how he could kick himself...after the discussion he was acting real flirty , always wanted to talk to me and then i sensed tho that was as far as he was taking it so i called him out on it and he started saying how he meant what he said and how he wasnt overly depressed over our breakup and blah blah blah....basically he makes no sense and totally contradicts himself.... so he still contacts me..... but theres no plans of him tryna get me back...obviosuly...i cant ride this rollercoaster anymore...its been 6 mnths...i should be well over this...and im not...how do i even begin to pick up the pieces....he was never one to play head games...i dont know what his deal is but i just cant anymore how do i fix my life???
J and S Posted November 22, 2007 Posted November 22, 2007 The both of you are so young. Concentrate on your future. College, etc. I think girls mature faster than boys and some boys never grow up. Sparks VS rollercoaster ride? I'd choose to be sparkfree. The world is filled with wonder.
sedgwick Posted November 22, 2007 Posted November 22, 2007 You must tell him that you don't want any more contact, and you must stick to it. It's the only way you'll get over him. If he doesn't want you in his life, he doesn't deserve to have you -- period. Also, please please consider actually ending your sentences with periods! The frequent ellipsis makes it hard to read!
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