dasking Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 Hello, My name is Ben and I am 18 and I have never kissed a girl, never asked anyone out, and never did anything with a girl. On the start-up scale, I am 0 on the knowledge scale. I am in college now; I don't think i am weird, I am average looking( maybe 5 on a 10 scale?), and I play rugby for my college so I am not geeky or anything. I also have white collar part-time jobs so I have money too. But I guess I don't know how to apporoach girls, I am naturally shy around girls and I don't know what to say; its either too stupid or too serious. But like I have no problem at interviews and etc. I am kind frustrated, I guess the guys in college are so much experienced than me.... PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!
Sean0775 Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 You remind me of me. I didn't kiss a girl until I was 20 and didn't lose my virginity until I was 23, so you're not alone. I thought it was hard to meet girls in college, but that was a cakewalk compared to the real world. I'd suggest trying to meet girls in your classes, as you already have something in common to talk about. If that doesn't work out for you, you might try having a friend set you up. As far as actual dating goes, it doesn't have to be anything spectacular...coffee at Starbucks is fine. If all else fails, most colleges have a page on http://thefacebook.com, so that's a pretty safe bet for meeting someone. Good luck.
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