annie77 Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 Ex BF, 7 yrs. together, been broken up a little over a year now. NC never applied because we still talked, e-mailed, seen each other and never stopped. I've made it clear to him that I want things to work out and to give us another try and he says he still loves me but he's not ready for a relationship and wants to just let things happen if they do. But yet, he still comes to see me every now and then, we still go out do dinner and a movie, etc. It's like an emotional roller coaster though, and if I cut off all contact, I'm afraid things will get worse for me. Do you think there is still a possibility of reconciliation after being broken up all this time? Or should I just assume things will never change?
Lee725 Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 Hard to say if you will reconcile, but you are not really doing yourself much good by hanging out with him, it is only going to make the emotional connection harder to break if say he meets someone else and wants to start seeing them. If you broke up a year ago and have not ceased contact you have not really had a chance to miss each other, so the friendship type relationship which you have going could go on forever. Mayb stop seeing each other and stay in contact periodically be email or something like that. At this point mayb the only way for him to work out whether he needs/wants you in his life as his girlfriend is to give him a chance to miss you.
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