Trying to get through this

[DenTod]

I just recently found out that my wife was having an affair for two years with someone who did not know about me. She lived a double life. I was married to her and he thought that they were boyfriend and girlfriend. He bought a house and he thought she lived with him. We have an apartment and I thought she lived with me. This is tough. I have never experienced anything like this. For the first time in my life I want to start taking care of myself and have never experienced that. Any suggestions?

 

Dentod

[LostinBama]

I just recently found out that my wife was having an affair for two years with someone who did not know about me. She lived a double life. I was married to her and he thought that they were boyfriend and girlfriend. He bought a house and he thought she lived with him. We have an apartment and I thought she lived with me. This is tough. I have never experienced anything like this. For the first time in my life I want to start taking care of myself and have never experienced that. Any suggestions?

 

Dentod

 

That really sucks! My heart goes out to you. Probably the best advice that I can give is to read everything you can about relationships here and there.

 

Hang in there...

[Chrome Barracuda]

Wow that's just disgusting. You should get the marriage annuled. How can she even talk to her friends and family about you or her boyfriend. You cant be married and in a relationship with someone else. Isnt that bigamy? isnt that against the law.

 

 

Change the locks asap. She wants to be his girlfriend so bad, then so be it!!!!

[DenTod]

It is definitely a tough road of emotions, but with everything she has done and lied about, I can't feel bad about it. This experience has been extremely bizzare and I'm thinking about writing a book.

[Gunny376]

Life can be bizzare, and just too ridiculious to live sometimes!

 

Far better to find this out about her ~ here and now~ than 10, 20, 30 years down the pike!