Daniica Posted November 18, 2007 Posted November 18, 2007 I really need some serious help you guys. OK, so straight to the point. I had this boyfriend, we were going out for about three months, and I really liked him since the moment I saw him in this party, but I had a boyfriend by that time, was a friend of his. Then me and him broke up and I started going out with that guy, he told me he liked me since the moment he saw me but he didn't want to get in between his friend and him, and we talked and talked for hours in our little date, at the end of the date we kissed and that's when he asked me to be his girlfriend. He lived 4 hours away, and we text messaged and talked over msn a lot.But truth is he never called me, just text messaged me or msn. I sometimes called him, I knew by fact he didn't have a lot of money so I called him, not urually rarely actually. Then I decided to go visit him, I went and visited him about 3 times, and we had very intimate moments and he told me he loved me and showed me he did. But after my 2nd time of going he started acting kind of apart, his messages were less and I discovered his ex. was still chasing him. I decided not to let this come between me and him, he said I was his one and that she meant nothing to him but that she and him were very good friends because they had been their whole lives so he couldn't just leave her like that. So I did something really stupid and forgave him for still being in contact with her. Third time I went and visited him, after a month or so, we had very intimate moments and he talked about how much he missed me and loved me, and everybody said he did seemed to be really into me. After I came back to my hometown we still kept in touch and he promised to change and to call me and do something to demonstrate that he really wanted me. Two weeks ago he send me a message saying he loved me and missed me a lot. The day after that, he went on a little vacation with his ex. After that I discovered that they spent a lot of time together. I was crushed, and I cried for two entire days. The third day he started sending me messages that he missed me and everything and then I told him I was mad because I didn't know anything about him, he hadn't called me or anything and he told me that if I didn't wanted to talk to him anymore he'll understand. I understood this as two sided sentence (he was telling me that he didn't wanted me no more or he was just saying that because he knew I wouldn't do so) so I called him and talked about it. He told me everything. His ex. and him were back together,he told me she was his girlfriend from there and I was the one from the place I lived. I was devastated, I felt like the second choice. And he told me that she took care of him while I was not there. But he denied the going to the trip with her just him and her but still told me that I could still be his girlfriend from here. I mean she knew about me, and she still kept calling him and messaging him saying she loved him, and missed him and called him names like "Babe" and "My love" and crap like that. We haven't talked since then. It has been a week, I'm still crushed. But do you guys know any way that I can take him back? I know this sounds silly and it should be stupid for me to do so. But I miss him badly and it is weird for me that he did that because he is just not that type of guy, by the way his friends say things about him, he is a pretty nice responsible guy. Do you think he'll start looking for me again? I mean his ex. is such a ho, she dresses like a girl that wants to have it going on. I, and not for being jealous or anything, I've heard that when couples break up and get back together is hard to make it work again. I don't know what to do! I want to make things work between me and him. But what should I do? PLEASE HELP!!!
norajane Posted November 18, 2007 Posted November 18, 2007 What should you do? Geez, isn't it obvious? Forget him! He's with another woman!
Nevermind Posted November 18, 2007 Posted November 18, 2007 He lied to you, he betrayed you. He is with another woman and is unfaithful to her also, as he wants to have two girlfriends at a time. His concept of a relationship are opposite to yours and it is not likely that they will change. Forget him. Move on.
dancinggal Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 So wait, he wants to have two girlfriends? Would be ok with you having two boyfriends? Forget him. Do you really want a guy who acts like this anyway? There will be other boys, trust me, you don't want the one who plays the field because your whole life will be about worrying about who he's going to run off with next. Let them be. End contact. Move on. If you have a Facebook page and he's a friend, post pictures of you having a great time without him. That's the best revenge you can have, just moving on with your life and enjoying it. He's a jerk.
Citizen Erased Posted November 19, 2007 Posted November 19, 2007 still told me that I could still be his girlfriend from here. Oh well how generous of him This guy has some balls, I'll give him that. Block him. Delete his email and his phone number. Thankfully you don't live near him. aargh! the nerve of some people!
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