jonedaisy Posted November 18, 2007 Posted November 18, 2007 My LDR ex and I broke up in April and decided to be friends after we're over eacb other. But we started talking after only a month. I felt like I was almost over him but obviously "almost" wasn't good enough. We talked a lot for a few months but recently that pattern changed. I'd call him and he would only call me back THE NEXT day or even the next night or the night after that. I think the last time I called him and he answered was a month and a half ago. It never happens anymore... So I stopped calling. He doesn't call very often..maybe once per day or two and only when it's free (aka after 9 pm or on weekends). And we only talk while he's driving to or from somewhere... When we talk he's VERY nice, which makes me happy and I forget why I was sad that we don't talk as often anymore. He says we're friends...best friends even... He doesn't reply to my texts anymore... Is he using me?
LakesideDream Posted November 18, 2007 Posted November 18, 2007 My LDR ex and I broke up in April and decided to be friends after we're over eacb other. But we started talking after only a month. I felt like I was almost over him but obviously "almost" wasn't good enough. We talked a lot for a few months but recently that pattern changed. I'd call him and he would only call me back THE NEXT day or even the next night or the night after that. I think the last time I called him and he answered was a month and a half ago. It never happens anymore... So I stopped calling. He doesn't call very often..maybe once per day or two and only when it's free (aka after 9 pm or on weekends). And we only talk while he's driving to or from somewhere... When we talk he's VERY nice, which makes me happy and I forget why I was sad that we don't talk as often anymore. He says we're friends...best friends even... He doesn't reply to my texts anymore... Is he using me? "Free Times" is one of the great benifits of the Cel phone revolution. Without the free time, my adult children would never call ! Thank Gawd, holidays are always free (we live in different states). While I have never used more than 500 of my minute allotment of 1000 I still tend to call out of state friends after 7 when my free minutes begin. And... anyone especially an "ex" that calls every "day or two" still wants to be in your life.
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