likegum Posted November 17, 2007 Posted November 17, 2007 I'm attracted to a guy at work. He's actually kind of like my boss or my bosses boss. He is older than me, 16 years to be exact. I'm 26 and he's 41 or 42. Both of us are single. He seems to be interested in me also. We both are mature adults and no one at work suspects anything.
niceandslow Posted November 17, 2007 Posted November 17, 2007 I don't think age should be an issue. Too many people put stereotypes on age gap relationships. If you are attracted to someone and like them, why should his or her age hold you back? I hate to sound cliche but age is just a number. The only thing you need to make sure of is what you both want in the relationship. I say go for it because it can't hurt. I'm dating a man 17 years older than me, and I've never been happier. Just make sure the rules you have at work about dating coworkers. Best of luck!
lovesparis Posted November 18, 2007 Posted November 18, 2007 i don't think age should be a problem for you. i'm about your age, i dated a 36 yr old, and a 52 yr old. what i woudl be concerned about is bringing work home, and vice versa. if he's in a supervisory position over you, and your R is discovered, he may lose his job. additionally, if you break up, it could be hell having to face him at work. be careful
lonelybird Posted November 18, 2007 Posted November 18, 2007 mature guy is better because they have more understanding and know how to love you, as long as he is healthy
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