Bigbody Posted November 17, 2007 Posted November 17, 2007 I've been with the same girl for almost a year. I have really strong feelings for her. We have a good time together and theres a real connection there. I love her. But, recently I met this girl. Something about her eyes attracted me to her. We have hung out several times as friends since then. We have a blast together and seem to have a connection as well. I am so close to cheating that I know I should quit seeing her but like I said we have fun so its hard to say no. Me and the gf are very serious so I am very unsure on what to do. I don't want to go down in the books at a cheater but would hate to break it off only to find out I'd regret it. Anyone else felt this way? Any advice?
Geishawhelk Posted November 17, 2007 Posted November 17, 2007 Ok, so here's the thing: When people cheat, or are tempted to do so, it's an indication that there's a glitch in the current relationship. If everything really was absolutely wonderful btwn you and your G/F this wouldn't even figure. ....."But like I said it's fun and it's hard to say no"? No it isn't! Or it shouldn't be! The thought of having sex with her should be a huge no-no to you. But it isn't. it sounds thrilling, fun and irresistible. Oh wait, is that a red flag I see flying...? Stop, take a step back, and first of all look at your long-term relationship with your G/F and see where the dissatisfaction lies. Then decide whether it's all worth enough for to you to re-evaluate, rescue it and put thoughts of having fun, aside. if it isn't - you got a lot of thinking to do....
Lyssa Posted November 17, 2007 Posted November 17, 2007 Stop, take a step back, and first of all look at your long-term relationship with your G/F and see where the dissatisfaction lies. Then decide whether it's all worth enough for to you to re-evaluate, rescue it and put thoughts of having fun, aside. if it isn't - you got a lot of thinking to do.... I agree with Geishawhelk. You should take a step back and work on what's missing (if there is any) from your relationship. It's pretty common when one feels happier with someone else, it's due to something lacking in current relationship.
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