melodymatters Posted November 17, 2007 Posted November 17, 2007 Well, thats quite a lifetimes worth of info you are requesting here SD, so I will start with just one tip. Myself, my teenage daughter and most female's I've known have one very specific pecadillo, that DOES NOT seem that hard for you guys to avoid. Do NOT talk about an ex female love interest in glowing terms, or talk about self same female too much, EVER. My girls and I, always manage to tell our stories while watching out for your ego's or just basically, being polite. I can't TELL you how many times, guys keep : referring to a hated ex as " My wife" Talking about how HOT she was telling a story where you could easily say " we were fishing" or "I was fishing with friends", but YOU GUYS always have to start the story with " DENISE and I were fishing"...which let me tell ya, we ain't listening to how you landed that bass once we hear our rivals name. Those are just three examples, but it is SO rampant, and even if we aren't the overly jealous type, seems to somehow be rubbing your past loves in our face, even though being guys, the LAST thing you prob want to do is start trouble . So please, be diplomatic, find a way to share your past experiences with out somehow dragging your ex's beauty, sex life, or shared experiences into OUR bedroom. Thank you.
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