loveydovey82 Posted November 17, 2007 Posted November 17, 2007 I'm going out tonight with the guy that I thought used me on Halloween. I posted a little while back about a one night stand that I had. It turns out that he told our mutual friend that he really is into me but that he has a really F'ed up situation. (((Baby mama drama...))) He's been calling and texting me everyday. He'll call and say he just wants to talk for no reason. He texts me and says he wishes he was talking to me instead of being at work. He calls me on his lunch breaks. I'm trying to not let all of his effort shake me. I'm trying to remain skeptical. When he calls I hear guys in the background heckling him. (You have a gf!, or (My name) don't go out with him!...etc...pretty much like high school.) I spoke to his friend on his phone and he said that the guy really likes me and that if I hurt him he would hunt me down. (LOL) I later found out that the friend dates the sister of my guy's baby's mama. (strange ) We went out Tuesday night. He called me at 10pm and asked me to meet him and his buddy downtown. I made a friend come with me because I didn't want to walk around by my lonesome. My friend and I only stayed for 2 hours. I spent most of my time talking to his friend and my friend spent most of her time talking to the guy I'm interested in.(She is engaged and just trying to help me.) She said that she really likes him and that he is telling the truth. Then he called me when I was pulling into my drive way later that night. We talked on the phone for half an hour about his situation. I'm remaining skeptical. It sucks that I am attracted to him. I don't know why I am going, but I want to ask him a few things. Maybe we'll have fun or maybe I'll realize that he is a poophead. So, wish me luck or leave me comments...
Author loveydovey82 Posted November 17, 2007 Author Posted November 17, 2007 or at least until the heavy conversation busted out. We talked about his situation and he keeps saying that he can't look good. (Which is true, but I can look past the situation to a certain extent.) He keeps telling me that he likes me. I'm not sure how to take that. Obviously, he likes me but I'm just not sure what he wants from me. I don't really care either. I just want to see where things go. I figure if we both like each other and he isn't lying, then we can just simply see where things go. I tried to tell him that I have no expectations because when you first meet someone, imho, you should not place expectations on them. I only expect honesty. The night was coming to an end and he was driving. I wasn't paying close attention and we started to turn into an apartment complex. It was his. I said no b/c I wasn't up for meeting the ex. I have no problem meeting his baby. He said that he wanted to prove to me his situation. I think that was too much for me last night. I'm still skeptical. It really sucks because I do like him. My heart says to just go with the flow but my mind is saying get the hell out now. Any thoughts...?
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